oh, you're right about that. but watching porn is more about getting any sexual frustrations and urges out, i'd say. something to use when you're not in a relationship (and hopefully even when you are...) but certainly not like "sorry honey i don't want to fuck, i've got this great porn i can wank to instead"I have never watched porn so all I have to go on are the stereotypes. It seems to me that porn isn't so much about relationships and affection.