The Sad Punk
Blue Crack Addict
Haha, nice.
Fuck, it's still too hot.
Fuck, it's still too hot.
The Sad Punk said:Haha, nice.
Fuck, it's still too hot.
gluey said:
shit day huh?
coolian2 said:I'm too tired to even go and look for dinner
coolian2 said:Thanks (although i now have a bowl of Special K, cereal to be known hereon as Special Win)
gluey said:ooh you're gonna have sexy legs
gluey said:I'm on a Weetbix Honey Crunch tangent at the moment
coolian2 said:
I haven't had that in a while, i must again soon
Cereal is SuperWin
Varitek said:gchatting the ex, on the topic now of a really weird email he wrote me at the end of the summer (in about june i cut off contact with him because he gchatted me every day and it clearly wasn't healthy):
him: sex was like the last thing on my mind
me: i was confrused
and sex is always the first thing on my mind
him: hmm, yet somehow you were always so tired last spring...
The Sad Punk said:
40.2
8 days over 35 in a row.
coolian2 said:I was in the supermarket the other day and they only had ordinary Special Win, not any of the stuff with berries.
I was heartbroken.
gluey said:
Reminds me of a joke my hubby likes to repeat.....
Woman in bed reading, husband comes into the room with a glass of water and a disprin. She asks what it's for. He replies that it's for her headache. She asks "What headache?". He says "Great! We can have sex tonight!!"
The Sad Punk said:You're in NZ, right?
Lucky cat! We're set for an improvement tomorrow, however - a nice, cool... 34.
Varitek said:
hahaha.
about 4 months before i got with the ex, i kinda casually dated this guy who one day mentioned that a friend of his was really distressed, she thought her relationship was doomed, and she said she could always tell when she didn't wanna have sex with him every day anymore.
last spring i thought a bit about that, cause we were 1-2 times a day and then it started to be 1-2 times a week, because i was so emotionally stressed out by the relationship that i just wasn't in the mood.
broke up with him and the everyday thing came back almost immediatley.
gluey said:
You obviously made the right choice for you then
My Dad has a saying....The first year of marriage, put a pebble in a jar every time you have sex. After the first year, every time you have sex, take a pebble out. You'll NEVER empty the jar!
He must have a truly tragic sex life - been married for 45 years!
gluey said:
Yep NZ..... You call that cool?
Varitek said:
aw poor dad. hilarious saying though.
i was thinking about this recently...is it possible to still have that sex drive, maybe not every day but still have it, not have that fallout like i did with the ex...because i love sex and i'd be really sad if that turned into my whole life...but it seems most couples do have that fallout.
The Sad Punk said:
I wouldn't normally, but hey - it's under 40!
gluey said:
Having been married for 12 years, I can honestly say it does slow down a little, as life etc takes over. Having kids leaves you exhausted, and as soon as your head hits the pillow you're out cold. Sometimes as soon as you sit down! . But there's always something there, and although it may not be every day all the time, it's there. I found if anything the relationship goes to a different deeper level. And after all this time together, I'm still not bored of being with my man!