Boring Lava Field, Oregon - Page 49 - U2 Feedback

Go Back   U2 Feedback > Lypton Village > Lemonade Stand > Lemonade Stand Archive
Click Here to Login
 
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
 
Old 04-11-2008, 11:25 PM   #721
Blue Crack Supplier
 
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 30,343
Local Time: 08:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by Screwtape2
You are all three victims. Telling her is fair to you, her and your friend. That's all I'm saying.
How is it fair to either of them, though? I don't see how me dropping a bomb like that while they're in a relationship would do any good for either of them.
__________________

__________________
phillyfan26 is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:25 PM   #722
Blue Crack Addict
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 26,959
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by LemonMelon


My advice:

Stay the fuck away until he's completely out of the picture. And yes, in all likelihood, they will split eventually. But you need to have patience and let things play out naturally, or you'll look really desperate/rude. And that's simply not attractive.

Besides, as you said so eloquently, bros before hos. You'll be interested in many women during your lifetime, but people that you genuinely connect with are pretty rare.
__________________

__________________
the tourist is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:25 PM   #723
Blue Crack Addict
 
unico's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Rage Ave.
Posts: 18,747
Local Time: 08:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by Screwtape2


Stop. I'm not telling Pfan to seduce her or try to break them up. I just believe he should tell her his feelings. That is only fair to the two of them.
For what purpose? What good will it do? He doesn't want to upset his friend, nor jeopardize a relationship his friend obviously values. I personally think that would be a selfish and heartless move.
__________________
unico is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:25 PM   #724
LMP
Blue Crack Supplier
 
LMP's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 37,609
Local Time: 07:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by KhanadaRhodes

i agree. i would be livid if i was dating someone and my friend decided she liked him and started moving in on him.

unfortunately, in my opinion, the only thing you can do is wait it out and see if you still like her when they break up.
Hey guys.

This is true. I just experienced that same thing pretty recently, too.

And I just got finished listening to Axver's list. He pwns flow, mood, and all of the other aesthetic decisions, but I can't get into some of the songs. I know there was a discussion earlier about individual voting processes, and I'd have to add that enjoyment of the songs themselves should play a factor, but not one large enough to disregard the whole list.

Rankings so far (I'll provide explanations if you like):
LemonMelon - A
Irishteen / Lemonchick - A-
Axver - B+
Bono_212 - C+
__________________
LMP is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:26 PM   #725
Blue Crack Addict
 
Screwtape2's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Omaha, Nebraska “With Screwtape on Kettle Drum and Wormwood on Harpsichord!”
Posts: 18,353
Local Time: 08:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by phillyfan26


How is it fair to either of them, though? I don't see how me dropping a bomb like that while they're in a relationship would do any good for either of them.
It is fair because you are giving them all the information. They deserve that as much as you deserve to get it off your chest.
__________________
Screwtape2 is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:26 PM   #726
The Male
 
LemonMelon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Hollywoo
Posts: 65,810
Local Time: 05:49 AM
"Intelligent" and "fair" are two completely different things. If he explicitly tells her that he's attracted to her while she's still in a relationship, it could definitely be a turnoff. If he wants a better chance with her, he would be wise to wait.
__________________


Now.
LemonMelon is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:26 PM   #727
Blue Crack Addict
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 26,959
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by Screwtape2


You are all three victims. Telling her is fair to you, her and your friend. That's all I'm saying.
Telling her makes her feel awkward and makes her friend feel hatred. Trust me. It happened to me. I was the one the girl left for the other guy. It was not good. I wanted to fucking slit his throat.
__________________
the tourist is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:28 PM   #728
The Male
 
LemonMelon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Hollywoo
Posts: 65,810
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by LemonMacPhisto

Rankings so far (I'll provide explanations if you like):
LemonMelon - A
Explanation, please.
__________________


Now.
LemonMelon is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:28 PM   #729
LMP
Blue Crack Supplier
 
LMP's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 37,609
Local Time: 07:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by phillyfan26


How is it fair to either of them, though? I don't see how me dropping a bomb like that while they're in a relationship would do any good for either of them.
It'll only complicate things further.

Like others have said, wait it out and see what happens.
__________________
LMP is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:29 PM   #730
Blue Crack Addict
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 26,959
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by LemonMelon


Explanation, please.
Yours is probably going to win.
__________________
the tourist is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:29 PM   #731
Blue Crack Addict
 
RavenBlue's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: The majestic Canuckian wilderness
Posts: 17,103
Local Time: 10:49 AM
What about my list? My list is so great that it pretty well doesn't exist.
__________________
RavenBlue is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:30 PM   #732
Blue Crack Addict
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 26,959
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by LemonMacPhisto


It'll only complicate things further.

Like others have said, wait it out and see what happens.
__________________
the tourist is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:31 PM   #733
Blue Crack Addict
 
Screwtape2's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Omaha, Nebraska “With Screwtape on Kettle Drum and Wormwood on Harpsichord!”
Posts: 18,353
Local Time: 08:49 AM
Fine don't listen to me Pfan. I just think you have ever right to tell her how you feel.
__________________
Screwtape2 is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:32 PM   #734
Blue Crack Addict
 
unico's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Rage Ave.
Posts: 18,747
Local Time: 08:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by Screwtape2
Fine don't listen to me Pfan. I just think you have ever right to tell her how you feel.
He already said she knows he's interested.
__________________
unico is offline  
Old 04-11-2008, 11:32 PM   #735
Blue Crack Addict
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 26,959
Local Time: 05:49 AM
Quote:
Originally posted by Screwtape2
Fine don't listen to me Pfan. I just think you have ever right to tell her how you feel.
Well anyone can feel the right to say or do anything. And anyone can say or do anything. But the person will have to live with the consequences of whatever they say or do.
__________________

__________________
the tourist is offline  
 

Tags
superthread

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:49 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8 Beta 1
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Design, images and all things inclusive copyright © Interference.com