bev it is ... the boss says so.
I am not sure what I want. I can admit that I do miss him -- hell, I was falling in love with him. He does have a good heart and is very sweet.
But ... as I said in my zc thread, i find that couples who break up do so for very good reasons and that things rarely change enough for thins to work out. I am not saying that every couple who gets back together will fail -- sure it can work out -- but in my experience it usually doesn't.
My fear is that things look good now and that he's trying his best to change things now, but he'll slip back into old patterns and we'll be back where we were before the break up.
So, bottom line is I am torn. If things have really, really changed, it would be a good thing ... like "this could be a serious relationship" kind of good.