bonoishot
Protecting my eyes ARRRR!!!
Sad_Girl said:no, you never 'get over it' when someone you love dies, but you do learn to go on and be happy again.
Jemma & Russty
thats almost exactly what i just wrote SG
Sad_Girl said:no, you never 'get over it' when someone you love dies, but you do learn to go on and be happy again.
Jemma & Russty
Russty Cat said:The memories keep me going too though. I think that's what can be so amazing about life. You can create this amazing memories to look back on that will always make you smile.
I can remember clear as day the look on my mums face when she told me to remember to brush my teeth, feed the dog, and remember to always tell my brothers that she loved them very much. Man when she came out of surgery and was alive and awake, I was sitting there. She looked at me and said "Well hell, I guess I have to feed the damn dog now." We started laughing so hard I cried. I asked her years later if she thought she was going to die. She said yes that she really thought it was the end. When I left home at a young age, she would always send me cards where ever I was in the world that would just say "Remember to brush your teeth! love you, Mom"
bonoishot said:
thanks dazzled
russty so sorry about your friend and your mum must be very brave
yes you're right i think you in time learn to live with it but never really get over it
thats one of the reasons i really want to meet B and the boys, say thank you for the music and how much it has helped me through all of this
bonoishot said:
thanks dazzled
russty so sorry about your friend and your mum must be very brave
yes you're right i think you in time learn to live with it but never really get over it
thats one of the reasons i really want to meet B and the boys, say thank you for the music and how much it has helped me through all of this
bonoishot said:
thats almost exactly what i just wrote SG
Sad_Girl said:
My mom's dad died when she was thirteen, in an accident during a response to a fire (he was a firefighter back in the day when they still rode on the back of the truck) and so she has always made a point to teach us all to say I love you every time we leave/say goodbye. Because she didn't get to do that; didn't really realize how quickly and completely life could change. It wasn't an easy lesson to learn, growing up but so important.
daygloeyes2 said:
It's amazing how much their music can help you through the rough times. I've gone thorugh hell in the past month, but their music has helped me get through it.
Sad_Girl said:
My mom's dad died when she was thirteen, in an accident during a response to a fire (he was a firefighter back in the day when they still rode on the back of the truck) and so she has always made a point to teach us all to say I love you every time we leave/say goodbye. Because she didn't get to do that; didn't really realize how quickly and completely life could change. It wasn't an easy lesson to learn, growing up but so important.
Russty Cat said:
Jemma I totally agree withh you. I have my good and bad days. But I can't wait for the day when I can tell the guys, thanks for keeping me from going completely insane. The music has helped my heart so much over the years.
The other thing that they probably don't even realize is that I want to tell them thank you for all the amazing friends I have, because of them. Its not just about U2, its about what their music does to people and how they can bring us together.
Russty Cat said:DG I'm still praying for you and I'm so glad that the music helps. But you know we are always here for you as well.
Russty Cat said:
SG I think that was why my mom was the way she was. Her dad left the house when she was 19 to play golf one day and never came back. He had a massive stroke and died. My mom was so close with her dad that him dying literally changed her whole life.
My mom was always telling me that she loved me and spending alot of time with me. When I was 8 yrs old she started disappearing alot and I never knew why. I found out when I was in juinor high that she was sick. But that didn't stop her for years. My mom was an amazing soccer player, a bit of a celebrity where we grew up. She could have played professional ball, but chose not to, because of us kids. Instead my mom and I would travel every weekend to tournaments where she would play and coach. She could always out run all of us kids. she was amazing to watch play. On all the long drives we listened to tons of music. She is the one who made me realize that music can change your life. I still have some of the tapes we listened too.
bonoishot said:err my idea
pleban party......HD appreciation
not sure what the mods would make of that tho