Pleban Girl Party - Drooling over our boys!

[Sad_Girl]

sorry - I was fighting with photobucket

This year Jeffy is going with his dad to his family Thanksgiving, up north of here which is obviously a bummer for me. My mom and Dad and I will go over to my Sisters (Jeffy's mom) and work together on a family dinner (at least, Mom and I will bring some stuff and She'll cook some there)

So it'll be me, mom and dad, Sheila, her older sons Jake and Matt, probably Jakes girlfriend Aftyn, and then my Brother Dave and his wife and two kids will stop by for dessert, at least

Mark Always works on the holidays - even when things were really good with us, he did. one Christmas both of us worked, but at least we got to work together, that day )

we pretty much always have Bannana nut bread, Turkey, Stuffing, Baked beans, yams, mashed potatoes and gravy, butternut squash, rolls, creamed corn, deviled eggs...

and then of course pumpkin pie and either peanut butter cake or chocolate cream pie



ok, now I'm hungry

 

[BonosBaby12]

Im sorry Jeffy won't be there SG

Need to come invade your dinner after reading what you are having

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

I'm also to see that Jeffy won't be there this year SG

 

[Sad_Girl]

Come on up! the more the merrier

 

[Russty Cat]

Now your making me hungry!

My SIL is cooking this year. Since she doesn't normally cook I don't have a clue what we will be eating. Its an adventure. I plan on eating lots of breakfast.

 

[BonosBaby12]

We had ribs for Thanksgiving. It was quite delicious.

Certainly beats the monotony of old Tom turkey

 

[Russty Cat]

Starts to plan how to steal Jeffy back. Screw that I'll just steal him and take him to my house and then SG has to come there.

 

[BonosBaby12]

Come on up! the more the merrier

Awww thanks I will bring the dinner music

 

[Sad_Girl]

I don't like it, but he needs to know his dad's side of the family, and this way we get him for Christmas


Besides watching Football and eating way too much, we don't really do anything all that special for Thanksgiving, really


I have some new pictures I need to get developed so I can share them My Niece and nephews are so darn cute

 

[VintagePunk]

Sorry Jeffy won't be there with you all, SG. That's really a bummer, but that's how it goes with single/blended families. You would know the motives of your former b-i-l better than me, but if thery're pure, you can comfort your loss with the thought that at least he has two parents that want to be with him on holidays.

 

[BonosBaby12]

I have some new pictures I need to get developed so I can share them My Niece and nephews are so darn cute

Oh I can't wait to see them! How old are the little ones?

 

[dazzledbylight]

I'm Baccccckkkkkkkk!!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!




OH, ahem........hello der!

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Hey Dazz

Take you time with the pics SG

 

[Sad_Girl]

Sorry Jeffy won't be there with you all, SG. That's really a bummer, but that's how it goes with single/blended families. You would know the motives of your former b-i-l better than me, but if thery're pure, you can comfort your loss with the thought that at least he has two parents that want to be with him on holidays.

Oh, yeah. the guy is an absolute idiot, but he's not mean spirited. I believe he genuinely wants to try and be a father to Jeffy. His family is weird but I don't think they're bad people; it'll be all right for him I think. and that is a huge comfort, after my sister's ex-husband - the middle son's dad - that family was terrifying to me

 

[BonosBaby12]

Hi Dazz! How have you been?

 

[Sad_Girl]

Oh I can't wait to see them! How old are the little ones?

Jake is 17, Matt is 15 - I got pics of Jake at his NHS induction Sunday, but Matt wasn't there - I think he's the only one I don't have any pictures of on this roll.

Jeffy is 5 (will be 6 on the 20th)

and my brother's kids DJ is 2 and Kayla is 4

They are the light of my life

I got a picture or two of my new haircut in there too, I think

 

[Russty Cat]

Hi Dazz

VP that is a very good point. It is nice that he does have two loving families. This is why I love this place. People know how to look at the bright side of stuff.

 

[Sad_Girl]

Welcome Back Dazz! I wondered where you went

 

[VintagePunk]

Oh, yeah. the guy is an absolute idiot, but he's not mean spirited. I believe he genuinely wants to try and be a father to Jeffy. His family is weird but I don't think they're bad people; it'll be all right for him I think. and that is a huge comfort, after my sister's ex-husband - the middle son's dad - that family was terrifying to me

for the older ones.

If that's the case, then perhaps they can, in the future, do what other divorced/blended families do, have the big holiday dinners on different days.

Not that that's even been a concern with Sarah's dad. And yes, I am bitter.

 

[BonosBaby12]

Jake is 17, Matt is 15 - I got pics of Jake at his NHS induction Sunday, but Matt wasn't there - I think he's the only one I don't have any pictures of on this roll.

Jeffy is 5 (will be 6 on the 20th)

and my brother's kids DJ is 2 and Kayla is 4

They are the light of my life

I got a picture or two of my new haircut in there too, I think

My oldest nephew is only a few years from being in his teens

You sound like an extremely proud aunt! They are so lucky to have you

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

It's ok to be bitter VP

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Jake is 17, Matt is 15 - I got pics of Jake at his NHS induction Sunday, but Matt wasn't there - I think he's the only one I don't have any pictures of on this roll.

Jeffy is 5 (will be 6 on the 20th)

and my brother's kids DJ is 2 and Kayla is 4

They are the light of my life

I got a picture or two of my new haircut in there too, I think

I agree with BB12....you must be a proud aunt

 

[dazzledbylight]

Hi Dazz

VP that is a very good point. It is nice that he does have two loving families. This is why I love this place. People know how to look at the bright side of stuff.

I commented in your prayer thread

I didn't go home yet, i might get home too late to call my sis .....but i will leave a message for her and se'll call up her pray circle tomorrow.

 

[VintagePunk]

Hi Dazz

VP that is a very good point. It is nice that he does have two loving families. This is why I love this place. People know how to look at the bright side of stuff.

Although it might be a bit harder for the parents involved, they're adults and they can suck it up - I'd rather see the child know that they're loved and wanted on both sides...so much more productive.

 

[flybabe]

 

[Sad_Girl]

for the older ones.

If that's the case, then perhaps they can, in the future, do what other divorced/blended families do, have the big holiday dinners on different days.

Not that that's even been a concern with Sarah's dad. And yes, I am bitter.

that's the way it is with the older boys dads (As with Sarah's dad, that is) and I hope that they can find a good balance, for Jeffy's sake. I know it's too complicated for me to figure it out myself

My oldest nephew is only a few years from being in his teens

You sound like an extremely proud aunt! They are so lucky to have you

aww, well thanks I am lucky to have them, I know that.

sometimes I feel like we're in a sit-com or something, though - and I'm the wacky, eccentric aunt that comes and goes and butts her nose into family stuff, etc...

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Hey Flybabe

 

[Russty Cat]

Thanks Dazz.

VP I totally agree with you. The kids come first! They didn't choose to be in that situation.

SG I meant to tell you that somehow I ended up with three Green Day cds today. I'm listening to American Idiot right now.

 

[flybabe]

Hey Flybabe

Hey Weldy,what`s going on tonight

Hey VP

 

[redhotswami]

Good evening everyone!!! How are you all tonight?