wildhoney22
Refugee
Okay, here's my story......
I've only been at my new school for 3 weeks now, but I know this guy "Matt" has liked me ever since then..... and I like him too. He's funny and outgoing around his friends, but kinda quiet and shy around me. We both knew that we liked each other, and we would look at each other in a cute way & talk to each other, but nothing had hapened at this point. I was sure he was going to ask me out but I didn't know when.
He introduced me to his friend "John" a couple weeks ago, but nothing really came of it. But last week John approached me and asked me if I'd be interested in participiating in one of the extracurricial activities at school, and I decided to 'cause I was interested in doing it.
He brought me to the meeting yesterday, and we talked for a while and he was really nice and funny & made me feel welcome.... and I like him a lot too now. He's really outgoing and smart and confident, which is the kind of person I am becoming. I asked him about Matt liking me, and John said that Matt had told all his friends about me, except that having a girlfriend wasn't one of his priorities, but he liked me a lot.
Today he saw me in the halls and asked me if I would go to the movies with him sometime(which pretty much means to go out w/ him). I was extrememely surprised and flattered. Since I was single, and I really like John, I said "sure", and that was that.
I was at lunch today telling my girls
about it, and some of Matt's friends came over & wanted to know if I would go out w/ him, because he had finally gotten up enough courage to ask me out...... but I had no choice but to tell them about me going & John possibly going out....
So Matt found out & went to John about it, and I don't know what was said but I guess he didn't say much, which isn't good because he's not the quiet type.
I like both of them a lot, but John was pretty direct with me in asking me out, and I found out from his friends that he really does like me, but so did Matt except he was too shy to ask me out...
John was pretty calm about the whole thing, and told me he knew that Matt liked me but he liked me too, except he said if he had to he'd "back off" so I could go out with Matt.
But in my physics class after all this happened, Matt didn't talk to me at all like he usually does, and wouldn't even make eye contact with me. And when I left school today I saw him outside, and he gave me this almost dirty look, but I have no idea what I've done wrong, and I am an emotional wreck right now.
I said that I'm gonna have to sit down w/ both of them and talk about it.... what concerns me the most is that now they're not talking becuase of me, and I don't want to be the reason for that. I like Matt a lot but John just sort of came in from nowhere and I am really beginning to like him too... each for different reasons.
I have no idea what I am supposed to do. right now I am leaning more towards John, except I don't want to hurt Matt cause he would be a lot more upset if I rejected him than John. And I don't want their friendship to be ruined because of me, so if I choose one of them, the other will be hurt, but if I choose nobody then they will both be upset...... but I know that it's my decision and I have to make one soon.
Right now I am too upset to even think about what I am going to do, which is why I went to my friends at school & why I've come to you PLEBA ladies, who have never failed me before. Any advice or words of wisdom I could use right now? And anything besides "follow your heart" cause I don't know what my heart wants right now..... thank you so much, and I love you girls for sitting through all of this.
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~ Katie ~
Dreamin' out loud.....
"A conga, my very own conga!" ~ Larry
Email me!
roxyangel22@hotmail.com
I've only been at my new school for 3 weeks now, but I know this guy "Matt" has liked me ever since then..... and I like him too. He's funny and outgoing around his friends, but kinda quiet and shy around me. We both knew that we liked each other, and we would look at each other in a cute way & talk to each other, but nothing had hapened at this point. I was sure he was going to ask me out but I didn't know when.
He introduced me to his friend "John" a couple weeks ago, but nothing really came of it. But last week John approached me and asked me if I'd be interested in participiating in one of the extracurricial activities at school, and I decided to 'cause I was interested in doing it.
He brought me to the meeting yesterday, and we talked for a while and he was really nice and funny & made me feel welcome.... and I like him a lot too now. He's really outgoing and smart and confident, which is the kind of person I am becoming. I asked him about Matt liking me, and John said that Matt had told all his friends about me, except that having a girlfriend wasn't one of his priorities, but he liked me a lot.
Today he saw me in the halls and asked me if I would go to the movies with him sometime(which pretty much means to go out w/ him). I was extrememely surprised and flattered. Since I was single, and I really like John, I said "sure", and that was that.
I was at lunch today telling my girls
about it, and some of Matt's friends came over & wanted to know if I would go out w/ him, because he had finally gotten up enough courage to ask me out...... but I had no choice but to tell them about me going & John possibly going out....
So Matt found out & went to John about it, and I don't know what was said but I guess he didn't say much, which isn't good because he's not the quiet type.
I like both of them a lot, but John was pretty direct with me in asking me out, and I found out from his friends that he really does like me, but so did Matt except he was too shy to ask me out...
John was pretty calm about the whole thing, and told me he knew that Matt liked me but he liked me too, except he said if he had to he'd "back off" so I could go out with Matt.
But in my physics class after all this happened, Matt didn't talk to me at all like he usually does, and wouldn't even make eye contact with me. And when I left school today I saw him outside, and he gave me this almost dirty look, but I have no idea what I've done wrong, and I am an emotional wreck right now.
I said that I'm gonna have to sit down w/ both of them and talk about it.... what concerns me the most is that now they're not talking becuase of me, and I don't want to be the reason for that. I like Matt a lot but John just sort of came in from nowhere and I am really beginning to like him too... each for different reasons.
I have no idea what I am supposed to do. right now I am leaning more towards John, except I don't want to hurt Matt cause he would be a lot more upset if I rejected him than John. And I don't want their friendship to be ruined because of me, so if I choose one of them, the other will be hurt, but if I choose nobody then they will both be upset...... but I know that it's my decision and I have to make one soon.
Right now I am too upset to even think about what I am going to do, which is why I went to my friends at school & why I've come to you PLEBA ladies, who have never failed me before. Any advice or words of wisdom I could use right now? And anything besides "follow your heart" cause I don't know what my heart wants right now..... thank you so much, and I love you girls for sitting through all of this.
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~ Katie ~
Dreamin' out loud.....
"A conga, my very own conga!" ~ Larry
Email me!
roxyangel22@hotmail.com