Sad_Girl said:It amazes me the depth of pain people can cause each other. I would never ever wish this kind of hurt on anyone; not even him. I can't stand just sitting down and crying and feeling sorry for myself though; I really need to have someone to talk to or something else to do.
Thanks for being here
susanp6 said:That is shocking SG! My father did that to my mother and he did lots of other horrid stuff and i haven't seen him since the 80s cos we never wanted to have anything more to do with him!!
Sad_Girl said:It amazes me the depth of pain people can cause each other. I would never ever wish this kind of hurt on anyone; not even him. I can't stand just sitting down and crying and feeling sorry for myself though; I really need to have someone to talk to or something else to do.
Thanks for being here
But I guess what I'm trying to say is I've learned to deal with the pain, but just in a different way. 
susanp6 said:YAY! You've reached 7,800 posts Wild!!!!!
Oh god Wild - I was looking at the pix of Bono standing in amongst the crowd and saying OH MY GAAWWWDDD!!!! That might be me feeling his leg (And god knows what else!!) on Wed nite!!!!
I'm too happy to be jealous of you. 
elysithea said:
I don't want to sound cliche, but I know how you feel (to a degree). I've been burned pretty badly once before. Afterwards I totally closed myself off, refusing to trust ANYONE ever again. I found out the hard way that it's not possible.... unless you want to be a hermit for the rest of your life. I'm typically an extroverted person, but after my breakup I started to distance myself from everyone - friends, family.... and they hated the fact that I was wallowing in self-pity.
It took a few years of steaming in my own juices to realize that I was being incredibly stupid (and selfish, I suppose).
Eh, I'm rambling now...
Sad_Girl said:
There's been a lot of turmoil between us for about a year now, he actually moved out of the house the day after our sixth anniversary (tenth year together, we got married on the anniversary of our first date). So It's not like a total blindside in that sense. but we've been getting together a lot more and really getting along well. I honestly had just started to think things were getting better.
I know what you mean about dealing with it, and I appreciate knowing I'm not alone. It hurts so much, but honestly if this had happened before March when I started chatting here, I would've taken it a lot harder. I guess I'll be listening to a lot of ATYCLB for awhile again. It saved my life once, and at least I'm not to that point again right now. I'm going to make it through.
I listened to it after my breakup, too.
I wish he could have done it in person. 
We are always here for you anytime you need us!
WildHoney said:
You'll have to put it in a tampon box or hide it somewhere
i might put some sanitary towels over it
Sad_Girl said:
There's been a lot of turmoil between us for about a year now, he actually moved out of the house the day after our sixth anniversary (tenth year together, we got married on the anniversary of our first date). So It's not like a total blindside in that sense. but we've been getting together a lot more and really getting along well. I honestly had just started to think things were getting better.
I know what you mean about dealing with it, and I appreciate knowing I'm not alone. It hurts so much, but honestly if this had happened before March when I started chatting here, I would've taken it a lot harder. I guess I'll be listening to a lot of ATYCLB for awhile again. It saved my life once, and at least I'm not to that point again right now. I'm going to make it through.
x million! They told us over the phone that the 14 day advance tix were sold out and that a 3 day return was more and at first it was going to cost more to get an earlier train back home so i just a diff one! Bummer! We shall all be skint at the end of all this, but won't it be worth it!!!!
I feel the same way Russty, and I'm glad you're ok now.
Sad_Girl said:Yes, I have some sims updates for you all, but I need to upload them. I've had a really really bad day and I need some Pleba love pretty desperately.
sorry only just seen this s at times ! my dad did that to my mum aswell, i haven't seen him for 11 years you know we're all here if you need to talk
Russty Cat said:Okay I haven't said this before, but I've thought of this often. It is no mistake that many of us just found each other in the past few months. I truly believe that God only gives us what we can handle in life and when He knows its going to be too much He gives us friends to help carry the burden.
I honestly thought back in March, that I was loosing my bloody mind. Having one of my best friends die, my brother overdose on drugs, my mom getting worse, and then finding out that my parents were selling their house and moving, cuz my dad has to retire early was about all I could take. I swear when my health went into the shitter again if it hadn't been for you guys I probably wouldn't be around.
I've never said this here before, but I seriously thought about hurting myself for a while. All the pain was almost too much for me to cope with. Thankfully between you guys, Mr. Cat, and so damn good drugs we got thru all of it.
I was at a point awhile ago where I tried to a few times. It's never the answer. And we're all here for you. 
susanp6 said:Wild - I have it booked yes, but i was telling Jem earlier that i ended up paying double what i thought i would, so it was £68!!!!!
Hello, wtf is that about????
susanp6 said:
Well Wild - I might just risk a teeny weeny grope of his ass you know if i'm honest if i was slow dancing with him on stage, but i wouldn't just lunge! I keep thinking that i could like, just be subtle and move my hand a tiny bit lower at a time and see how far he'd allow me to go! I know a lot of girls on this site seem to frown on it, but he doesn't seem to be all that bothered by a little bit of that sort of stuff so it's not all that bad is it?
