elizabeth
New Yorker
I guess this could go in "it's official" or "confessionals" but it feels safer here for me...because more plebans know me and will hopefully treat me with generosity and forgiveness.
here's why i need nice treatment.
i have a crush.
yes, a crush, and not on a rock star or movie star, on a "real" person who just so happens to be the friend of my husband. ACK.
it will go away soon, but right now it's TUFF. the dude is WAY cool. he's anti-consumerism, anti-corporate, plays the guitar, loves radiohead and had a dream about Bono giving him a lot of money to go out and "do good." he wants to be a writer ohmy and wants to read my writing! he spent 5 months touring around central america all on his own. he grew his hair out. it's slightly long, curly, attractive. he's intelligent. he's athletic. now that i think about it...he's like Ed.
i just need some time to get over this, right? and i'm not evil for feeling this way for a few days, right? it's natural, right?
and though i did bad things as a young woman, there is no way i'm jeopardizing things with ed. not a chance. ever. EVER.
but it's tough. right now i feel attracted to this guy and i want him to know what i think....but i don't want to DO anything about it...or for him to do anything...other than basically be flattered. I would feel even worse if he thought less of me for feeling like this. do people EVER understand when you feel different emotions for two people at the same time...and that those feelings don't detract from one another? does that make ANY sense?
hell, even if you dont know me and you wanna weigh in here with some kind of comment, even a CRITICAL comment reminding me to love the one i'm with and be glad for it because too many people out there have enough trouble loving one person let alone thinking they like a second...well, that's fair. I'll accept all comments humbly and with an open mind.
here's why i need nice treatment.
i have a crush.
yes, a crush, and not on a rock star or movie star, on a "real" person who just so happens to be the friend of my husband. ACK.
it will go away soon, but right now it's TUFF. the dude is WAY cool. he's anti-consumerism, anti-corporate, plays the guitar, loves radiohead and had a dream about Bono giving him a lot of money to go out and "do good." he wants to be a writer ohmy and wants to read my writing! he spent 5 months touring around central america all on his own. he grew his hair out. it's slightly long, curly, attractive. he's intelligent. he's athletic. now that i think about it...he's like Ed.
i just need some time to get over this, right? and i'm not evil for feeling this way for a few days, right? it's natural, right?
and though i did bad things as a young woman, there is no way i'm jeopardizing things with ed. not a chance. ever. EVER.
but it's tough. right now i feel attracted to this guy and i want him to know what i think....but i don't want to DO anything about it...or for him to do anything...other than basically be flattered. I would feel even worse if he thought less of me for feeling like this. do people EVER understand when you feel different emotions for two people at the same time...and that those feelings don't detract from one another? does that make ANY sense?
hell, even if you dont know me and you wanna weigh in here with some kind of comment, even a CRITICAL comment reminding me to love the one i'm with and be glad for it because too many people out there have enough trouble loving one person let alone thinking they like a second...well, that's fair. I'll accept all comments humbly and with an open mind.