As you saw in my topic I need advise. I know that this isn't about U2 but I consider you guys my friends, and I feel that I can talk to you about this without the bias that most of the people in my 'other' life would have!!
As many of you know, my boyfriend and I are planning on moving in together. We have talked about this for over a year, and have been together for more then five. He is a wonderful man, will be a great father, and I love him a lot. There is only one problem. He is a total slob!! In fact, his whole family is. They leave dirty dishes lying around and dirty clothes lying on the the floor. Junk doesn't normally make it to the garbage, and dishes don't get washed until they are needed again. I, on the other hand, am a very, very neat person. (I relate to Monica on friends. Alot.)I keep my cd's in alphabetical order, and seperate my clothes in the closet.
I have talked to him about my concerns, and he keeps telling me that he will be cleaner when he doesn't live at home. I want to belive him, but the fact that his bedroom floor is covered with junk, and his car is a pigsty tell me otherwise. He tells me that his older brother was a slob when he lived at home too, but became much neater when he moved in with his fiance. He also tells me that since he will be living with me he has too much respect for me and my stuff to make a mess.
Do you think that it is possible for him to change??? I know that I am going to have to teach him to be clean, but do you think that this is one of those 'can't teach an old dog new tricks' things???
Any advice would be great!!! Thanks everyone
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***Spinny***
"OH, SINNY- er,um- SPINNY!" (freudian slip?)-JulyFly
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Here I go and I don't know why
I spin so ceaselessly
Could it be he's taken over me????"