RocknRollKitty said:
I think there's one thing some people don't understand. When you get older, it's not like you're trying to pretend to be young, it's that you are still yourself and still feel like yourself on the inside, and you don't feel like you are old so you shouldn't have to look it. In a way I find it very offensive that anyone would think that older people don't have a right to look the way they feel best, or that good looks are only for the young. But to me it is honestly laughable to think it's a bad thing for people to fix themselves up in middle age (and scary to me as someone approaching it) I have a feeling as some people get older they will see what I'm talking about.
What is "good looks" actually?! It's something you define from your culture and the norms of your society. In other parts of the world, "good looks" is very different from what we would think of as "good looks".
So can you be 20, 30, 50, 70, whatever and still "look good"? In my oppinion - yes, you can.
But in the western world the ideal of "looking good" has been turned into a look that the majority of us only have for a short period of time in our life and I must not critizie anyone for wanting to "look good" for a period longer than that, I just really,
really wish it weren't so. I wish there were other ideals that said "Hey, you're 60-something and full of wrinkles and have gray hair - and you look absolutely great and beautiful!" and that operations and treatment with Botox and the likes only was used by people who needed it because of medical problems, like I wish that the ideal woman wasn't 1,85 m. tall with long skinny legs and a tiny waist - I can wish, but the ideals won't change... not in my lifetime, I guess.
So, do I like Bono's current look? Yes, everything about it - the clothes, the shades, the hair - IMHO he's one of the very few men that looks great with long hair.
RocknRollKitty said:
And Bowie has had hair as long as Bono's Elevation look much of the last few years, and it's obviously DYED BLOND as it has been for many many years. Bowie has been dying his hair since the 1960's and if anyone thinks at 57 that's natural they are more than naive
... and I haven't seen a picture of Bowie in ages so I shouldn't be qouteing something, when I don't know what I'm talking about - Argh, I feel so stupid!