Well I do agree with you, somewhat. If you're buying from a private seller, you HAVE to do your homework. I was one of the lucky ones, I bought from a private seller and she was kind enough to issue a refund. But I made sure to buy from a local seller, I kept the person's email address, home and cell number, and I picked up the tickets at her work, so I would've found her eventually. The rules are there are no rules when buying from a private seller, but there are ways to buy from a stranger and still get your cash back if need be. I personally would give the money back.