I don't think it is being unreasonable to continue to call or write to the travel companies, airlines, hotels, rental car agencies (hit them all up separately too!). I agree with you all about the customer service industry, it really isn't what it used to be.....and for working in the industry myself I find myself telling some of the IDIOTS I get stuck dealing with that had it been me treating one of our customers in the same way I was then being treated, I would be put on report or fired. Sometimes that gets a change of attitude and action, sometimes not. I don't use that lightly either, I am dead serious. We have until Aptil 6th for hotel and April 7th 9:30am to make any changes.
The other argument I am using in my phone and writing campaign is that it's not that we (my party anyways) are wanting to CANCEL, we want to postpone and change our itineraries is all. Chances are it will be changed to a higher season rate so the airline and hotels are not going to be losing but double gainin anyway (scumbags!) So my advice to all is to take a deep breath, get on the phone with the nicest and most positive of attitude you can muster.....reference all the other travel companies and airlines etc who are being compassionate and hope for the best. And any letter sent, do it via registered return receipt as well as get the name, title and contact info of each person you speak with. Best of luck and keep coming back here to share info and stories!