of the three shows i've been to:
1) San Diego 2 - this show has an unfair advantage, as it was my first (and so far only) show in GA, which made a fantastic show even greater. the people around me were really cool and into it, tremendous energy. plus, gloria!
2) San Diego 1 - great crowd this show as well, plus the excitement of opening nite of the tour. the atmosphere was electric!
3) New Jersey 1 - had rear-view seats for this one, which wasn't bad, though the crowd in my section was pretty dead. from my perspective, the crowd in general wasn't that energetic, aside from a few people. the band was in fine form though.