This is scary! I think you and me are the same person! My obsession has got worse since I turned 40 (last December), in fact sometimes it's only my music that keeps me going! My husband turned 40 a few months before me, and overnight he turned into an old man, in fact his dad. Now, I've nothing against his dad, I love him to bits but I don't want to live with him. My job is so boring, so much so I intend to do something about that soon. But on the positive side, I've got 2 happy, healthy, well adjusted kids, my husband (although boring!) worships the ground I walk on and since I turned 40 my confidence has grown and I feel fantastic. And anyway, I've got my music and I can visit Bono Land whenever I want!vlasak said:I will turn 40 in one week. I'm having a tad bit of a problem with it. I used to say "Oh, I can't wait to turn 40! That's when everything starts "happinen" for women!" Now, I'm just not so sure. I've loved U2 (especially Bono) since one week before I got married - 16 years ago. My husband took me to see Rattle and Hum. I feel I'm much too old to be so obsessed, but, alas - what the hell! This is it, my one and only life here on earth! My husband is a poop and my job bores me to death! Bono TOTALLY TURNS ME ON!