I have come here to ask because I don't know what else to do. I have a problem and I hope somebody can tell me there's an easy fix for it.
How can I stop every little thing I do from coming up on friends' pages as 'Jane Doe commented on Joe Blow's post' and showing just that post in their news feed, though they are not even friends with Joe? I am NOT talking about the regular news feed, I am talking about some special updates some people- but for some reason not all- get on every little petty thing I do on facebook.
See, I have all different kinds of friends from all walks of life, and maybe some things I would say to Joe Blow I might not want Mary Sue to see, understand? Now, if Mary Sue were in the same friends circle with Joe Blow and I she'd naturally see it in the news feed, but to have her not be friends with him yet have my comments to him show up on her page as a special post informing her of every little thing I do and say is ruining the fun of the site for me.
My question- can somebody tell me how to stop this, is there anything in the settings I can do to prevent this?
(FYI this has nothing to do with the little lock at the bottom of the post where you can customize, I know all about that and use it a lot, this is about my comments on others' posts being sent to some ppl's newsfeeds when they wouldn't have naturally appeared there, and nothing but the post and my comment show up.
HELP!?