lady luck said:
yes, in Italy they say
"in amore vince chi fugge"
(in love, who runs away win)
I am not sure of this, thoug
I am afraid that the chaser will get tired to run, someday...
It's true.
I can't stand it, though. Why is it so hard for two people to make the decision to want to be together?
It always seems like silly emotional games, where one person feels bad about losing, and the other doesn't care about winning. That's why .....
Eh... basically, that's why I don't like the word "love".
I think people sometimes get so focused on "how they feel" that they lose sight of what love is.
Personally, though, I am currently accepting that I cannot be the way I want to be. When I find a girl that I really want, I want to be really nice to her, spend time with her, do things with her, for her, etc. Just because that's what I like, and that's who I am, on one level.
But instead, I see that I will most likely have to be a jerk, and PURPOSELY distance myself, or as you say "run away from love", in order to get it. I can't stand things like that, though.
This is why I put such a high price on maturity, because I hope I can find someone who see's through all that stuff. But then again, maybe it's just a neccesary thing. A foolish part of human emotion...
Sometimes.......
Sometimes love disgusts me.
It makes people do things that shouldn't be done.
But I've felt it. I know why people do it.... I've been touched by love.
Acutually, that's why I'm on this "journey" that I speak of elsewhere. To see what I was like before love, and now, after love - to make a comparrision...........