why I can't I just enjoy?!

[WildHoneyChild]

You should just enjoy what you have right? I mean why analyze it to meaningless dribble? I have met someone who is nice, funny, fun and treats me like the woman I always knew I was. Without going into detail he is w.o.n.d.e.r.f.u.l. lol (read between the lines) and I have fun with him and we're young and healthy. But I'm scaring myself to death because of it. Because I don't want a relationship...I don't want that in my life at the moment but I can't turn back now can I? Is anyone out there who has some sort of tangible explanation for this situation? I want everything a relationship has to offer without the relationship.... The line has been crossed hasn't it? Is it possible for a healthy sexual friendship to exist?

*slaps back of hand to forehead in dramatic and melancholic woe*

 

[Sicy]

Have you tried talking to him about this? Maybe he wants the same thing you do.

 

[WildHoneyChild]

Yes, we've both talked about it. But sometimes I don't think I can trust my heart to listen to my head...

 

[martha]

But sometimes I don't think I can trust my heart to listen to my head...

Then listen to your heart.


Don't pass up something wonderful simply because you think it's not what you want at this moment.

 

[WildHoneyChild]

Don't pass up something wonderful simply because you think it's not what you want at this moment.

Then what if I said I don't know what I'm supposed to do in a relationship...

 

[Sicy]

Just do what comes natural. Dont feel pressured just because its a "relationship". Just go with your feelings and enjoy each other.

 

[WildHoneyChild]

I know that's what I'll try and do. Its just I'm afraid of getting attatched...And I'm sure some psychoanalysis could be useful here...But yeah...anyway...ty

and why do relations with the opposite sex have to seem so complicated? lol

 

[Cleasai]

As cliche as this sounds, some of my best relationships were basically nothing more than a friendship with some added benefits. You should never be forced to do something just because you are a "couple." You are going to have to take this one fleeting moment at a time until you forget what your "status" is. And yes, I do know that this is alot harder than it sounds. But hey, at least you have your Interference friends to help ya along heh heh.

 

[WildHoneyChild]

true

It was just in a moment of weakness and frustration that I posted it, but thank you to all who answered... Though it may seem opposite I know that there are others in situations similiar, maybe even worse and better than this ^_^