Hello to all!
Never made a thread here in confessionals and rarely post here, so bear with me, please!
Recently, it seems like I am getting a lot more attention from females my age, which I welcome. I don't know if its the fact that I am finally feeling a bit better after going through the worst times of my life in 2009/early 2010 and that is showing through or something else.
Either way, I am having better conversations, more flirting, more prospects than I have since probably 2 years ago.
I have recently noticed a trend with girls that initiate flirtation with me and I can't help but comment on it and ask for the thoughts of others.
Why is it that girls will flirt with guys(or guys with girls) and not just be friendly, I mean, really put yourself out there as somewhat interested and/or available, when they have boyfriends?
I am not saying go into a shell and don't talk to anyone of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship, far from it, but to the extent that these girls have gone with me just in the last couple months at the gym I go to?
Both of these girls work the desk at the gym.
-One of them, a nice looking brunette about 3 or 4 years older than me will always hit on me and last week, she even gave me a little accidentally on purpose show of the assets by "picking up pieces of paper" on the floor. She did this back to me, then chest(you know what I mean by this) to me, then flirtatiously said hello as I walked in.
-The next one is a blonde/dirty blonde/light brown about 2 yrs younger than me who often smiles at me and tries to get me to notice her as I walk by her. She is very attractive, but U2 wrote Moment of Surrender, Bad and Running To Standstill for her, so I don't want those problems, never been much for heroin. Very nice and articulate as well, too bad she is an addict, hope she gets help either on her own or after an arrest(unfortunate as that would be).
Back to the point, this particular girl the other day looked right at me, smiled and told me I had gorgeous blue eyes.
What do both of these girls have in common?
A nice little invention known as Facebook tells me they have boyfriends!
This frustrates me, as it screams "tease" and makes me think all I am there for is to reassure these girls of their attractiveness by looking at them/chasing them around the gym.
It doesn't help that the dating pool has gone down significantly for me since I graduated college, so I am still adjusting to that!
Thank you for reading, I am far from concise, sorry!!
Questions, comments, thoughts in general?
Never made a thread here in confessionals and rarely post here, so bear with me, please!
Recently, it seems like I am getting a lot more attention from females my age, which I welcome. I don't know if its the fact that I am finally feeling a bit better after going through the worst times of my life in 2009/early 2010 and that is showing through or something else.
Either way, I am having better conversations, more flirting, more prospects than I have since probably 2 years ago.
I have recently noticed a trend with girls that initiate flirtation with me and I can't help but comment on it and ask for the thoughts of others.
Why is it that girls will flirt with guys(or guys with girls) and not just be friendly, I mean, really put yourself out there as somewhat interested and/or available, when they have boyfriends?
I am not saying go into a shell and don't talk to anyone of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship, far from it, but to the extent that these girls have gone with me just in the last couple months at the gym I go to?
Both of these girls work the desk at the gym.
-One of them, a nice looking brunette about 3 or 4 years older than me will always hit on me and last week, she even gave me a little accidentally on purpose show of the assets by "picking up pieces of paper" on the floor. She did this back to me, then chest(you know what I mean by this) to me, then flirtatiously said hello as I walked in.
-The next one is a blonde/dirty blonde/light brown about 2 yrs younger than me who often smiles at me and tries to get me to notice her as I walk by her. She is very attractive, but U2 wrote Moment of Surrender, Bad and Running To Standstill for her, so I don't want those problems, never been much for heroin. Very nice and articulate as well, too bad she is an addict, hope she gets help either on her own or after an arrest(unfortunate as that would be).
Back to the point, this particular girl the other day looked right at me, smiled and told me I had gorgeous blue eyes.
What do both of these girls have in common?
A nice little invention known as Facebook tells me they have boyfriends!
This frustrates me, as it screams "tease" and makes me think all I am there for is to reassure these girls of their attractiveness by looking at them/chasing them around the gym.
It doesn't help that the dating pool has gone down significantly for me since I graduated college, so I am still adjusting to that!
Thank you for reading, I am far from concise, sorry!!
Questions, comments, thoughts in general?