What do MEN want?

[Bonoa]

A woman who admits that she belches and farts and who is not afraid to pull his finger!

 

[RedRocksU2]

I actually would stay away from that. No bueno.

 

[Bonoa]

I actually would stay away from that. No bueno.

You won't pull my finger for me?

 

[bugo]

Let's see..

Someone I feel comfortable with, a mixture of intelligent deep discussion and light-hearted banter, tolerance and devotion. (Also preferably with brunette hair and curves!)

My last gf had most of that but she was too fiesty and fickle in the end.

 

[Purplereign]

You won't pull my finger for me?

. . . fellas, it would seem, would just like to know where they stand, oh, and in my experience, complete control of the remote
(pick a show, stick with it to the end and realise that all you're missing when you flip to another channel or four is more ads and its all good )

 

[Pearl]

(Also preferably with brunette hair and curves!)

 

[kingofsorrow]

i want someone no taller than 5'6, dark hair, big brown eyes.

 

[Bonoa]

i want someone no taller than 5'6, dark hair, big brown eyes.

 

[kingofsorrow]

 

[Dalton]

Every dude in this thread is full of shit.

 

[kingofsorrow]

Every dude in this thread is full of shit.

i beg your pardon? Don't put me in the same boat these guys. I'm more full off shit than anyone else here.

 

[purpleoscar]

i would appreciate the thoughts of you blokes out there, esp from those in long term relationships.

Watch Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Most men I know don't want a woman who constantly belittles, whines, complains etc. Most men may find some humiliation in life (including jobs) so when they come home they don't want ego fights there too. I'm pretty sure this goes for women as well. Someone who is for positive action when challenges arrive (which they will arrive sooner or later) is better than a negative person who makes things worse with their attitude. Festering negative ruminiation is the worst, so communication has to be there. Men need support and encouragement, otherwise why have the relationship if alone is better? Because of the general narcissism out there, when you tread on someone's big ego you're in for an argument. Of course dating someone without a large ego helps.

Also I think both men and women like to have some alone time periodically (but not all the time) and some activities to partake in together (not just sex). If two people have absolutely NOTHING in common then it's time to find a new relationship. There has to be some agreements there somewhere.

The most important thing I could add is that everyone has expectations and a movie in their mind about how their lives should be and that is the biggest reason for disappointment and disatisfaction with relationships. A lot of men and women get together because they like the dating part of the relationship but when marriage/kids/responsibilities show up one or both members get shocked and want out. It's so important to know what you want and to check it with conflict with your partner and what they may want.

If the money isn't put in a budget and managed properly so priorities can be agreed on then there will be lots of fights and probably an end to the relationship when debts come due. How to jointly handle money is HUGE because most of our goals and dreams (that mental movie of your life) involve some element of money.

 

[purpleoscar]

Right wing political views
Atheist/pagan/Luciferian satanist preferred

I think you'll have some trouble finding the right-wing/satanist type. I don't think they exist in high numbers.

 

[financeguy]

I think you'll have some trouble finding the right-wing/satanist type. I don't think they exist in high numbers.

I wasn't being 100% serious.

Really what I want is:

Your perfect partner is:
Affectionate
You're looking for a partner who makes you feel completely safe and secure. She believes in happy endings and is ready to share her life with you. She wants to lay down the foundations for a long and happy partnership with you. She's a good listener and always
How to love her
You'd probably like someone who's adventurous and open-minded. She believes in living life to the fullest and wants to expand her horizons. She's eager to develop as a person and to learn more about the world around her. This is something you could really enjoy doing together - she would certainly appreciate how much you understand what matters to her.
A Love tip for You

Here's a love tip for when you find her: bare your soul... honesty and openness is the route to her heart.

 

[purpleoscar]

I wasn't being 100% serious.

Yeah I know. I just thought it was funny.

 

[Bonoa]

I wasn't being 100% serious.

Really what I want is:

That's cute! I admit that I was kinda surprised when I read your first post, you don't seem the type to look for an S&M mistress.






or...

 

[Got Philk?]

Every dude in this thread is full of shit.

I'm not.

 

[cobl04]

I'm not.

just been to the toilet then?

 

[Purplereign]

^ excellent

 

[Galeongirl]

just been to the toilet then?

Badum tish!

 

[cobl04]

yes, i am here all week!

 

[Bonoa]

just been to the toilet then?

How was it, Got Philk?

 

[Kiki]

I'm taking a risk of my fellow girls smacking me and the guys rolling there eyes, here; and I'll admit I haven't read threw the entire thread yet, but I think the old saying that was more recently in a rap song is probably pretty close:
"We want a lady on the streets and a freak between the sheets"

ok....sorry. I know that was bad.

 

[Got Philk?]

How was it, Got Philk?

I've finally gotten over the grudge from these comments and I'll reply.


And yes, at that point I had just gotten off the toilet...but I have since cleaned the seat and left it down just for you ladies.


See how good I am?


I'll be back in another 2 months...

 

[financeguy]

I came across this on another forum, I thought it was rather good:

Most people use the word intimacy without having a clue what it means.

Intimacy is not about physical contact or physical closeness. It is about conversations where you speak to each other without going through the ego. It is about sharing the real you, and being accepted, not trying to fix the other one. It is about bonding on a deep level.

 

[JanuaryStar]

I came across this on another forum, I thought it was rather good:

Agreed

 

[MrPryck2U]

"We want a lady on the streets and a freak between the sheets"

ok....sorry. I know that was bad.

How bout a freak in the streets and a lady between the sheets?

 

[financeguy]

This song just says...everything.

Boy it’s tough getting on in the world
When the sun doesn’t shine and a boy needs a girl
It’s about getting out of a rut, you need luck
But you’re stuck and you don’t know how, oh

(Don’t have to be) A big bucks Hollywood star
(Don’t have to drive) A super car to get far
(Don’t have to live) A life of power and wealth
(Don’t have to be) Beautiful but it helps
(Don’t have to buy) A house in Beverly Hills
(Don’t have to have) Your daddy paying the bills
(Don’t have to live) A life of power and wealth
(Don’t have to be) Beautiful but it helps

You need more
Than a big blank check to be a lover, or
A Gulfstream jet to fly you door to door
Somewhere chic on another shore

You need more You need more You need more
You need more You need more You need more
You need love
You need love
You need love

Too much of anything
Is never enough
Too much of everything
Is never enough
You need more
Than the Gerhard Richter hangin’ on your wall
A chauffeur-driven limousine on call
To drive your wife and lover to a white tie ball

You need more You need more You need more
You need more You need more You need more
You need love

I believe that we can achieve
The love that we need
I believe, call me naïve
Love is for free

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8iWC9lg7js&feature=related

 

[mad1]

do men expect more from women and dont give back as equally?

 

[MrPryck2U]

do men expect more from women and dont give back as equally?

No