I know I can't do anything about it and that it is his life, that's the part that makes me sick.
It was semi sudden semi unexpected. She had been on various painkillers and meds for different things so we were all worried that something might happen. But then one night she went to bed and when my uncle went into go to bed he realized that she was blue and not breathing. She had overmedicated then had a seizure on top of that.
nicv, I can understand because my uncle is 65 and I don't know how old the lady is so I might end up having some more cousins. Another uncle of mine over 50 I believe actually married a girl younger then me. After being college sweethearts with my aunt and having 4 kids.