Some advice please

[U2Girl1978]

He probably does like you if he's asked you out a few times. It's probably going to take awhile for you both to fall in love. But, you should try going out on dates with other people too if you haven't had that exclusive talk yet.

 

[floweravalanche]

Ok thanks U2Girl means alot I just need to learn not to fall fast, and get attached so easy. Was just strange when he said that to me, through me off I thought I had done something bad.

 

[U2Girl1978]

No problem. It's really easy to get attached quickly. As long as you give each other some space all will be well. Just remember to take a deep breath, have fun and enjoy the ride.

 

[floweravalanche]

ok dokies, will try my best

 

[floweravalanche]

For some reason he hasnt really talked to these last couple of days, other then one hi, etc. On aim but not awhole lot. Not sure on what to think about this. Last time I had that happen it turned out not very well

 

[Bonoa]

Maybe you should keep quiet for a couple of days and wait for him to make a move. Now it's his turn. Like U2Girl said, you both need some space.

The crazy thing about men is that they like it when they have to do their utmost to get to you, but when things move too fast it'll scare them.
Be patient now!

 

[floweravalanche]

Men are confusing lol

Im waiting and also not getting my hopes up and setting myself up for a trap if that makes sense.

 

[floweravalanche]

Anyho I'm just gonna give up on him, if he wants to give it a shot etc fine with me if not I'm not gonna let him take me down. I cant deal with stuff like that.

-sigh- but that coping comment it really did hurt me a bet cause I know I do suffer from depression and anxiety and I have been working my hardest to over come that stuff

 

[floweravalanche]

Anyho I'm just gonna give up on him, if he wants to give it a shot etc fine with me if not I'm not gonna let him take me down. I cant deal with stuff like that.

-sigh- but that coping comment it really did hurt me a bet cause I know I do suffer from depression and anxiety and I have been working my hardest to over come that stuff

 

[Bonoa]

I'm sorry to hear that!

A big for you!

 

[floweravalanche]

Thanks Bonoa