Doozer61
Blue Crack Addict
I don't know how to make this short and sweet but I will give it a try.
Caron has a 16 year old daughter that is very negative about everything in life. She is also very spoiled by her grandmother and has no concept of what its like to want anything. She is verbally abusive to the grandmother and to Caron on almost a daily basis.
The child is failing school, has dropped out of dance and only wants to be on the computer or hanging out with her friends. Caron has her in therapy and has tried several different ways to talk to her but it always ends up in a major confrontation.
They have tried the reward system, taking things away, grounding, etc. but nothing seems to work because she doesn't really give a shit about anything. She is always in a foul mood.
I understand that some 16 year olds are like this but its so horrible that I don't even want to be around it. Which is why I don't go over there when she is home. It is the whole broken home, father abandonment issues, troubled teen thing that I really don't understand.
But now she has taken up the habit of lying. Well, she was already lying to Caron about things like all kids do but now she has taken it to a different level. Last week at a function that they went to, she told some younger teens that she was using crystal meth. They told their parents and so on and so on. Of course she denied it when confronted about it last night. But how do we know?
Then we find out that this weekend she told Caron's mom that Caron and I were planning on selling Caron's house and moving away when she is 18 so she has to be on her own.
I have no clue where that came from. And I really wanna take this kid and show her that I am really not as calm and serene as she thinks I am. Caron was sobbing on the phone, telling me about this because it ended up in another confrontation.
I don't know what to do. I am completely at a loss. Caron and I spend most of our time talking about this kid. And we don't even get that much time to spend together because of her. I have tried to be her friend and stay out of it but it is effecting our relationship and now the kid is telling lies about me. What could be next?
I really wanna go over there tonight and give her a piece of my mind.
Caron has a 16 year old daughter that is very negative about everything in life. She is also very spoiled by her grandmother and has no concept of what its like to want anything. She is verbally abusive to the grandmother and to Caron on almost a daily basis.
The child is failing school, has dropped out of dance and only wants to be on the computer or hanging out with her friends. Caron has her in therapy and has tried several different ways to talk to her but it always ends up in a major confrontation.
They have tried the reward system, taking things away, grounding, etc. but nothing seems to work because she doesn't really give a shit about anything. She is always in a foul mood.
I understand that some 16 year olds are like this but its so horrible that I don't even want to be around it. Which is why I don't go over there when she is home. It is the whole broken home, father abandonment issues, troubled teen thing that I really don't understand.
But now she has taken up the habit of lying. Well, she was already lying to Caron about things like all kids do but now she has taken it to a different level. Last week at a function that they went to, she told some younger teens that she was using crystal meth. They told their parents and so on and so on. Of course she denied it when confronted about it last night. But how do we know?
Then we find out that this weekend she told Caron's mom that Caron and I were planning on selling Caron's house and moving away when she is 18 so she has to be on her own.
I have no clue where that came from. And I really wanna take this kid and show her that I am really not as calm and serene as she thinks I am. Caron was sobbing on the phone, telling me about this because it ended up in another confrontation.
I don't know what to do. I am completely at a loss. Caron and I spend most of our time talking about this kid. And we don't even get that much time to spend together because of her. I have tried to be her friend and stay out of it but it is effecting our relationship and now the kid is telling lies about me. What could be next?
I really wanna go over there tonight and give her a piece of my mind.