LikeNoOneBefore
Refugee
So my ex-boyfriend and I have been apart for almost three months now. He's dating a girl that he got together with five days after he broke up with me.
When I first found out about his new girlfriend, we got in an argument online, followed by me calling him up and apologizing. We talked for about an hour and a half, sorting things out and saying that we were sorry. He said that he really wanted to be friends with me and that things would be okay.
Since then, things haven't been okay. We got into a lot of random arguments (online, because we're lame and immature...heheh) followed by him blocking me for a few weeks and then talking to me again and apologizing. That has happened twice. He'll say that he wants to be friends, but then a few days later, he'll hardly say anything to me or he'll briefly mention something he and his new girlfriend did over the weekend, which is definitely not what I want to hear.
I'm trying my hardest to keep a friendship with this guy, but I don't know what to do anymore. I have a Christmas card to put in his mailbox, and if this doesn't repair things, then I feel like I should give up. I really don't want to because he used to be one of my best friends before all of this happened.
What should I say to him or do? I've talked to my friends, and they are as confused as me.
I hope that was enough information. If you can help me, thanks in advance.
When I first found out about his new girlfriend, we got in an argument online, followed by me calling him up and apologizing. We talked for about an hour and a half, sorting things out and saying that we were sorry. He said that he really wanted to be friends with me and that things would be okay.
Since then, things haven't been okay. We got into a lot of random arguments (online, because we're lame and immature...heheh) followed by him blocking me for a few weeks and then talking to me again and apologizing. That has happened twice. He'll say that he wants to be friends, but then a few days later, he'll hardly say anything to me or he'll briefly mention something he and his new girlfriend did over the weekend, which is definitely not what I want to hear.
I'm trying my hardest to keep a friendship with this guy, but I don't know what to do anymore. I have a Christmas card to put in his mailbox, and if this doesn't repair things, then I feel like I should give up. I really don't want to because he used to be one of my best friends before all of this happened.
What should I say to him or do? I've talked to my friends, and they are as confused as me.
I hope that was enough information. If you can help me, thanks in advance.