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She confessed that I was the rebound.
Just a rebound - Ouch!
Just a rebound - Ouch!
Originally posted by foray:
I wonder how women recognise if it's a rebound or not. Surely even a rebound guy must mean something to them? ....
foray
Originally posted by scatteroflight:
Guys can do that to girls too. I wasn't directly told so, but I was definitely the rebound for the only guy I've ever actually gone out with. He actually got back together with his loser girlfriend, after he told me that he was breaking up with me because he felt he was still on the rebound from the loser girlfriend. How much does that suck?
Originally posted by Diemen:
Situations like that are frustrating and difficult for both sides, I'm sure, especially since "rebounds" are supposed to be the ones that get people back onto their feet and moving on, not moving back to the people that knocked them to the ground in the first place.
Originally posted by foray:
"If you have been rejected many times in your life, then one more rejection then one more rejection isn't going to make much difference. If you're rejected, don't automatically assume it's your fault. The other person may have several reasons for not doing what you're asking her to do: none of it may have anything to do with you. Perhaps the person is busy or not feeling well or genuinely not interested in spending time with you. Rejections are part of everyday life. Don't let them bother you. Keep reaching out to others. Keep reaching out to others. When you begin to recieve positive responses, then you are on the right track. It's all a matter of numbers. Count the positive responses and for get about the rejections." -- Radiohead
Originally posted by DrTeeth:
But I didn't do it on purpose...
I didn't realize I was on the rebound until it was too late.