Another update to our situation - today I learned that my father has been diagnosed with Chronic Lymphoid Leukemia...now its one of the slower progressing diseases of the cancers but the issue is that we are not sure how long he's had it before diagnosis...BAW and I did some head-knocking and she recalls a conversation with my Dad over a year ago, in our home, where he mentioned some blood work and he threw the L word in there...
I have a vivid memory of another conversation in August, 2004, wherein he told me that he was bruising quite easily.....well, I've researched the disease and learned that "Abnormal bruising often does not appear until late in the illness..." That was last August.
Please understand that we're in the dark on this because my father's wife, #1 doesn't speak English very well and #2, she's still in that "not trusting the Estrada family" mentality despite that fact that I've been accepted as the liason between us and her.
Dreadfully, I must report that tomorrow, I am going with my Dad and his wife to visit the mortuary to discuss plans....this must be done and I've chosen myself to fulfill the role. I'm thinking that my BAW will go with me to serve as my support. I will let everyone know what's happening; your prayers are working, I'm told that my father's appetite is better and he seems very active in the past 2 days...
Peace be with you.