JCOSTER
ONE love, blood, life
Ok so heres the story: My 3 1/2 year old nephew has life threatening egg/peanut allergies.
Now everytime we have a family gathering that consists of about 20 people, I try to make special precautions like cutting out food labels and buying food that contains no egg/peanut or that was processed in a plant that contained the two. I even shampoo my carpets just incase there is any residue on the floor. I make sure that I have things that he can eat and his parents bring food for him as well. In the past, I have made announcements reminding people that he has the allergy and even stopped his own grandmother from giving him the wrong food.
My brother in law approached my husband and myself and said that he didn't think that we do enough to protect his child from having a severe reaction to the food we put out. I really don't know what else we can do, if my child wants an ice cream cake for his birthday I have to say no because the cake is made where peanuts are. That just doesn't seem right.
My kids have friends with allergies and the mother hands me the eppy pen and snacks for her kid. So I am trusted by others who are in the same situation.
On the other hand my brother in law and sis in law let this kid run ramped and unattended through my house, allowing him to do things my kids were never allowed to do.
I feel very hurt because I love my nephew and nieces very much and to be told that I didn't care was extremely hurtful.
If they were that worried about him picking up something to eat that he shouldn't, shouldn't they be more on top of him to make sure he is safe?
Please tell me what you think? thanks
Now everytime we have a family gathering that consists of about 20 people, I try to make special precautions like cutting out food labels and buying food that contains no egg/peanut or that was processed in a plant that contained the two. I even shampoo my carpets just incase there is any residue on the floor. I make sure that I have things that he can eat and his parents bring food for him as well. In the past, I have made announcements reminding people that he has the allergy and even stopped his own grandmother from giving him the wrong food.
My brother in law approached my husband and myself and said that he didn't think that we do enough to protect his child from having a severe reaction to the food we put out. I really don't know what else we can do, if my child wants an ice cream cake for his birthday I have to say no because the cake is made where peanuts are. That just doesn't seem right.
My kids have friends with allergies and the mother hands me the eppy pen and snacks for her kid. So I am trusted by others who are in the same situation.
On the other hand my brother in law and sis in law let this kid run ramped and unattended through my house, allowing him to do things my kids were never allowed to do.
I feel very hurt because I love my nephew and nieces very much and to be told that I didn't care was extremely hurtful.
If they were that worried about him picking up something to eat that he shouldn't, shouldn't they be more on top of him to make sure he is safe?
Please tell me what you think? thanks