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Well said, Carek. I fully agree with everything you said.
youtooellen said:
any advice on what I should do or consider?
joerags said:I'm feeling very depressed right now. I am so scared of the future, of being alone. I
whenhiphopdrovethebigcars said:yeah. you should accept help. if you don´t accept it and tell yourself you probably don´t need it, things are not going to get any better.
as to your friends, thank them for being there for you and tell them you will talk about it when you want to talk about it, when you need their help you might turn to them, but at the moment you´re ok and you just need them to be there. tell them it´s a very personal thing and you don´t really want to talk about it unless you really need their help.
and just call the numbers the guy gave you. my god, what can happen? in the telephone conversation, you will find out how they react. to telephone doesn´t mean you have to go there to accept their help, even if it would be the best thing to do. a telephone call is nothing, you don´t even have to tell your name.
then, if you like the people and like what they say, fix a date.
but first of all, you need to do something about your situation. you need to accept help.
Carek1230 said:I don't know how old you are, but is there a counselor or someone at your school that you trust that perhaps you could speak with and maybe with the help of school they can support you and sort of over-ride your parents in getting you some help since it sounds like that is what you are afraid of or that is what's blocking you from getting the help in dealing with your depression....unfortunately clinical depression is more widespread than a LOT of people realize, and it is an illness that can be treated with therapy and medication. I hope you can find someone to help you out. Good luck, keep checking back.
youtooellen said:
I'm 16 Carek and I don't think there's much at my school who can help me out. I'm sure they can, it's just that I choose to avoid having my school involved with any of my family relations and going-ons. During school some of the involved teachers would call me or my brother out during class to 'talk' and I could tell it was irritating my brother, I mean it was irritating me too. Are teachers allowed to do that during the school day anyways? I never understood why they'd do that, especially in the middle of class .
I'm thinking that instead of going to therapy where my parents need to know or seeking help with my parents knowledge, I'll just go to a response center around my area or something. I've found a few places nearby so I think it could work. If not, I'll last resort it and just talk to the school social worker.. again.
thanks for the kind words Carek
and many thanks to everyone in this thread
youtooellen said:
I'm 16 Carek and I don't think there's much at my school who can help me out. I'm sure they can, it's just that I choose to avoid having my school involved with any of my family relations and going-ons. During school some of the involved teachers would call me or my brother out during class to 'talk' and I could tell it was irritating my brother, I mean it was irritating me too. Are teachers allowed to do that during the school day anyways? I never understood why they'd do that, especially in the middle of class .
I'm thinking that instead of going to therapy where my parents need to know or seeking help with my parents knowledge, I'll just go to a response center around my area or something. I've found a few places nearby so I think it could work. If not, I'll last resort it and just talk to the school social worker.. again.
thanks for the kind words Carek
and many thanks to everyone in this thread
Antidepressants May Harm Infants' Lungs, Report Says
By BENEDICT CAREY
February 9, 2006
Expectant mothers who took antidepressants like Prozac late in their pregnancy were significantly more likely to give birth to an infant with a rare but serious breathing problem, doctors are reporting today.
The lung disorder, called persistent pulmonary hypertension, strikes 1 to 2 newborns in 1,000, on average, and can be fatal. In babies exposed to antidepressants during the last few months of pregnancy, the study found, the rate was six times as high: 6 to 12 newborns in 1,000.
In a news conference yesterday, Dr. Sandra L. Kweder, an official at the Food and Drug Administration, which was not involved in the research, said that the study results were "very worrisome," and that the agency planned to search its own database of adverse events for further evidence of risk. She said the F.D.A. would consider whether to require manufacturers to make labeling changes and conduct postmarketing studies to clarify the risk.
The findings, published today in The New England Journal of Medicine, are the latest in a series of reports that highlight the tough choices that face millions of women with depression who are pregnant or plan to be. Untreated maternal depression can also harm a developing fetus, experts say, and last week researchers reported in a study that 68 percent of pregnant women who quit taking antidepressants relapsed, compared with 26 percent of those who stayed on the drugs.
But studies have found that up to one-third of babies exposed to antidepressants in the womb suffer temporary withdrawal symptoms like agitation. The F.D.A. has warned that one popular depression drug, Paxil, from GlaxoSmithKline, may increase the risk of rare heart problems in newborns exposed to the medication in utero.
"It's very important to get across that we don't know for certain that the drugs actually caused persistent pulmonary hypertension, and that if they did, the risk is still low, about one in a hundred," said the new study's lead author, Dr. Christine Chambers, an assistant professor of pediatrics at the University of California, San Diego, who worked with researchers from Boston University and Harvard. "But women should be informed."
Psychiatrists estimate that 10 percent to 15 percent of pregnant women suffer bouts of depression, and at least 1 in 10 of those take antidepressants.
Between 1998 and 2003, the research team interviewed 377 women who had recently given birth to a baby with persistent pulmonary hypertension, asking about medical history and drugs taken during pregnancy. The researchers found that 3.7 percent of the infants had been exposed to commonly prescribed antidepressants after the 20th week of pregnancy, about six times the rate among infants in a comparison group of healthy babies born at the same time.
The antidepressants belong to a class of drugs that acts in the brain to prolong the action of a mood-related messenger chemical called serotonin. They included Celexa, from Forest Laboratories; Zoloft, from Pfizer; Paxil; and Prozac, from Eli Lilly.
In their paper, the researchers argue that the drugs may hinder the body's production of agents that help blood vessels dilate. If the vessels in a newborn's lungs do not open properly, they cannot absorb sufficient oxygen, and the body may reflexively hold its breath, further starving itself of air, doctors say. Giving an infant oxygen, or nitric oxide, which helps open vessels, often relieves the problem. An estimated 10 percent to 20 percent of cases are severe enough that doctors may connect an affected child to an artificial lung.
Obstetricians, psychiatrists and pediatricians agree that pregnant women taking the drugs should consult their doctors to decide how to proceed. Stopping antidepressant therapy can cause withdrawal effects as well as relapse, they say.
Dr. Timothy Oberlander, a developmental pediatrician at the University of British Columbia, said that the new study added to a small but growing literature that was helping clarify the risks of specific drugs taken during pregnancy.
"You're talking about small numbers here, but it's clear that there are a group of babies that have more side-effects from exposure to these drugs than most," Dr. Oberlander said, "and women need to weigh this against the risk of untreated depression, which not only affects the mother but the context in which the child is raised."
U2Girl1978 said:Hi all,
A little update for you.. I went to the doctor and I described what I was feeling and it is definitely Seasonal Affective Disorder. She says try to get that light box and exercise more. Something about endorphins. So, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice in here and kind words. It's great that we are all giving advice and being there for the other person.
U2Girl1978 said:Hi all,
A little update for you.. I went to the doctor and I described what I was feeling and it is definitely Seasonal Affective Disorder. She says try to get that light box and exercise more. Something about endorphins. So, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice in here and kind words. It's great that we are all giving advice and being there for the other person.