Ok, to be more specific, these lines really hit home for me here.
"The sky over our head
We can reach it from our bed
If you let me in your heart
And out of my head"
I'm still a little in shock of how poingently this relates to my situation. If I could simply release all these feelings for her and if she would accept me and share that with me, I feel like we could reach the sky. Figures Bono would be the one to put down all my feelings for her into a simple 4-line phrase.
Yeah, it's a damn good song on its own right, but I instantly felt that connection with it. Every time I listen to it, that part still starts to choke me up a bit.
As a side note, and I don't really know why I feel like writing this down, but what the hell. I finally, errm, fantasized about her tonight. We were watching Nip/Tuck on DVD, Episode 203 to be specific, and I just couldn't help myself.
Yeah, I had a brief but very strong sexual urge right there, and I must admit I thought about what it would be like with her.
It did feel good to fantasize though for just a little while. At the same time though this sneaking feeling crept back that has been telling me nothing is ever going to happen between us. I'm not sure whether it's instinct or pessimism, but something wants me to believe it's a lost cause. That I'm only wasting my time with this. Luckily that's still nothing more than an occasional itch I have to scratch before my hope and complete love for her takes over again.
Hopefully I can stay in control of this and not freak out too badly. I think it would be a big help if I could confide in a close friend here about this. I need someone I can talk to in person, as great as you all are and have been
. Problem is, there is nobody like that here. And friends from home can't offer any more insight that any of you (I already have spoken to one friend from home about it. But she told me to just completely open my heart to her right away.
I don't think so). I'd like to think Kyle would be a good enough friend to trust with this, but I have a feeling he'd only resent me for it. Bah.