NYbrowneyedgirl
Acrobat
with parenting my two children, however after yesterday, I really think I must have failed somehow.
My parents are in Italy in vacation for a month and I have been taking care of their house. They have an inground pool and I've allowed my fourteen year old daughter their alone with some of her friends since it's been very hot. I only work down the street from their house, so I thought it would be okay. Well yesterday, she was there with three of her friends who are 15 years old. One of the girls forgot her bathing suit and they couldn't find any one to give them a ride so she could go get it, so they decided to take my mother's car and drive!!!!!
The girl that was driving had some experience driving, but no permit. On the way back to my mother's house, she somehow stepped on the gas instead of the brake or something and put the car in a ditch almost on its side. They are all okay, however my mother's car is damaged and is sitting in a shop. I should find out how much its going to cost to fix today, it looks like there is a lot of damage underneath.
So yesterday, I got a call from the NY State troopers to come get my daughter. Since they are all under sixteen, they are not in any trouble with the law for taking the car. However, my parents could press charges when they get back, but I don't think they will if we can get their car fixed.
These are four "good" girls, who have good grades and play sports. I just don't understand how they could do this. Have we failed them as parents? I blame myself, and now I have to tell my parents what my child has done, and also pay for their car to be fixed which will probably be in the thousands.
It's very scary, kids today have no fear and do not think of the consequences their actions may bring. My daughter feels terrible for whats she's done and I feel like a terrible parent and that I have somehow failed.
My parents are in Italy in vacation for a month and I have been taking care of their house. They have an inground pool and I've allowed my fourteen year old daughter their alone with some of her friends since it's been very hot. I only work down the street from their house, so I thought it would be okay. Well yesterday, she was there with three of her friends who are 15 years old. One of the girls forgot her bathing suit and they couldn't find any one to give them a ride so she could go get it, so they decided to take my mother's car and drive!!!!!
The girl that was driving had some experience driving, but no permit. On the way back to my mother's house, she somehow stepped on the gas instead of the brake or something and put the car in a ditch almost on its side. They are all okay, however my mother's car is damaged and is sitting in a shop. I should find out how much its going to cost to fix today, it looks like there is a lot of damage underneath.
So yesterday, I got a call from the NY State troopers to come get my daughter. Since they are all under sixteen, they are not in any trouble with the law for taking the car. However, my parents could press charges when they get back, but I don't think they will if we can get their car fixed.
These are four "good" girls, who have good grades and play sports. I just don't understand how they could do this. Have we failed them as parents? I blame myself, and now I have to tell my parents what my child has done, and also pay for their car to be fixed which will probably be in the thousands.
It's very scary, kids today have no fear and do not think of the consequences their actions may bring. My daughter feels terrible for whats she's done and I feel like a terrible parent and that I have somehow failed.