DaveC
Blue Crack Addict
I just need to vent.
Here's the jist:
Basically, me and Rachel had sex for the first time on July 10th, we both lost our virginity, yada yada yada, we've done it once since then, back in mid-August. Problem was that that first time, her brother (yes, THAT brother) came home earlier than he was supposed to, and heard us upstairs in her room. We had no idea he heard, and we thought all was well. And yes, we used all the protection methods available to us.
So all was good. I was getting along fine with her parents, the whole "in the parents' house" thing was resolved (we had stopped), etc. Then, outta the blue, her brother mentions something in passing this morning before school when Peter (her dad) was banging around upstairs getting ready for work, about how it reminded him of me and Rachel, and her mom questioned the brother further, and basically he told her everything. Then, for proof, she went into Rachel's e-mail (without permission) and dug around till she found an e-mail I had sent a while back that mentioned it in passing. Her mom and dad sat her down at home, and lectured her and talked to her and yelled at her for 3 hours. Basically her and I can't do anything together alone ever again, her dad is ready to kill me, her parents have zero respect for me or her at this point, and her mom can't even look her in the eye. Rachel can't eat, she can't sleep, she can't stop crying...I feel like absolute shit right now.
I don't know what the hell to do. I feel like I should talk to her parents ASAP, but I know that all they'll do is deride me and yell at me. My parents don't know, and I feel like I should be telling them, but the problem there is that if I do tell them, 100% guaranteed they will forbid me from ever seeing Rachel again, and that's the last thing I want. I just don't know... I mean, we did think about the consequences, and we figured that eventually they'd find out somehow, but not like this. I don't know what to do...
I feel like shit right now, like the lowest scum of the Earth.
Here's the jist:
Basically, me and Rachel had sex for the first time on July 10th, we both lost our virginity, yada yada yada, we've done it once since then, back in mid-August. Problem was that that first time, her brother (yes, THAT brother) came home earlier than he was supposed to, and heard us upstairs in her room. We had no idea he heard, and we thought all was well. And yes, we used all the protection methods available to us.
So all was good. I was getting along fine with her parents, the whole "in the parents' house" thing was resolved (we had stopped), etc. Then, outta the blue, her brother mentions something in passing this morning before school when Peter (her dad) was banging around upstairs getting ready for work, about how it reminded him of me and Rachel, and her mom questioned the brother further, and basically he told her everything. Then, for proof, she went into Rachel's e-mail (without permission) and dug around till she found an e-mail I had sent a while back that mentioned it in passing. Her mom and dad sat her down at home, and lectured her and talked to her and yelled at her for 3 hours. Basically her and I can't do anything together alone ever again, her dad is ready to kill me, her parents have zero respect for me or her at this point, and her mom can't even look her in the eye. Rachel can't eat, she can't sleep, she can't stop crying...I feel like absolute shit right now.
I don't know what the hell to do. I feel like I should talk to her parents ASAP, but I know that all they'll do is deride me and yell at me. My parents don't know, and I feel like I should be telling them, but the problem there is that if I do tell them, 100% guaranteed they will forbid me from ever seeing Rachel again, and that's the last thing I want. I just don't know... I mean, we did think about the consequences, and we figured that eventually they'd find out somehow, but not like this. I don't know what to do...
I feel like shit right now, like the lowest scum of the Earth.