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I've been friends with this guy for about 4 months, and now it seems like it could become more. His behaviour towards me has changed a little- there's more of the eye contact and body language thing happening. And he seems to take any opportunity to hang around me. However, I know that in his past relationship he was very badly hurt, and I think he's cautious now. So he seems to like me on one level, but doesn't seem to want to do anything about it.
And as for me, I developed a bit of a soft spot for him, because he's nice, and funny, and all that. But I tried not to let feelings develop any further, because I too have been hurt in the past. However, the more I've gotten to know him, especially very recently as we've been hanging around more, the more I've liked him. Our personalities seem to match really well, and my friends have noticed chemistry between us.
But it looks like we are both afraid to do anything about it. I know I am, because I don't want to scare him off or anything, nor do I want to feel the hurt again. It looks to me as if he is experiencing a similar thing: he seems afraid of getting into another relationship.
My friends and family are all telling me the same thing: do nothing, and just let develop whatever will develop. What you Zoo people think? I'd love to hear a guy's perspective on it.
Thankx
And as for me, I developed a bit of a soft spot for him, because he's nice, and funny, and all that. But I tried not to let feelings develop any further, because I too have been hurt in the past. However, the more I've gotten to know him, especially very recently as we've been hanging around more, the more I've liked him. Our personalities seem to match really well, and my friends have noticed chemistry between us.
But it looks like we are both afraid to do anything about it. I know I am, because I don't want to scare him off or anything, nor do I want to feel the hurt again. It looks to me as if he is experiencing a similar thing: he seems afraid of getting into another relationship.
My friends and family are all telling me the same thing: do nothing, and just let develop whatever will develop. What you Zoo people think? I'd love to hear a guy's perspective on it.
Thankx
To Another..go for it-just like your friends are saying! Let it flow...just always be honest, and yourself. The rest will happen on it's own, in it's time! Oh-hey, and good luck! I love a good love story!
