Diemen said:
The bay area is full of panhandlers. I've caught several people selling me the same "my car broke down and I just need some money to get a place to stay for the night" story more than once....
I heard the same story tonite...my friend and I had stopped at the drug store Before going to Fencing Class because her lips were dry and she didn't have anything for her lips with her. As we come out of the store, this guy asks for some gas money because his car broke down and he lived in Duncanville, which is a suburb south of Dallas. I had $15 on me, but I told the guy sorry, but all I had with me was my check card.
Then he asked if we had change so he could at least make a phone call....I didn't have any change at all in my purse, only bills, but my friend gave him some pocket change from her car. Maybe he was telling the truth, but it's hard to tell.
Dallas has just recently passed some laws banning panhandling. I'm not sure if the laws are in effect now or not yet. I think it's a good idea, but they're still going to try to get their money doing just what this guy did, asking for gas money, etc.
Granted, I wouldn't have had a problem at all giving someone 35 cents to make a phone call if I'd had the change. Or like Klaus said in his reply, I'd have no problem giving a homeless person some food, or a blanket, or some old clothes or something. That would be better than giving them money which they'd most likely just use on drugs or whatever. I know not all are out to get drug money, and it depends on the situation.
It's funny tho when they try to get you coming out of the store and think you'd have cash on you and try to get money that way...I think I'd be less likely to give someone money in that situation, like the guy at the the store tonite.