Irvine511
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... i don't know who to take to the first DC show, my unofficial new boyfriend or the person i originally offered the ticket to.
i'd gotten tix through U2.com for the 2nd show and decided to take another one of my friends, we'll call him G, because he's a huge fan, we've been friends for almost 10 years, etc. he also stuck with me when U2 went through their Pop phase and were the object of criticism and i did my best to defend them against the naysayers. i'm a big believer in Karma -- he earned that ticket.
i was deciding between giving the ticket to G, or to A, who is one of my new best friends since moving to DC. she and i have a fairly emotionally intimate relationship, and i adore her, though she's prone to some jealousy and bearing a grudge and i often have to walk on eggshells around her. she's also a pretty big fan. i was hearbroken to have to choose between G and A, but i felt as if G "deserved" it more -- i had even considered holding an essay contest -- but i was going to try and get tix to the 1st show on eBay so i could take one each night, and i knew A would have the $$$ to pay for the ticket.
magically, i was able to get -- expensive, nosebleed -- tix for DC night 1, and i offered them to A. she was thrilled, but knew that i had just started dating someone new, we'll call him T. she adores T, and she said, point blank, that if i'd prefer to take T, then she'd understand.
and while she'd understand, i know she desperately wants to go, since she screamed and started jumping up and down when i offered her the ticket. i think she's just being really nice, which is sweet, but ... i dunno ...
i know, i know, you're thinking, "but, Irvine, with a significant other, you can make out during WOWY or whatever." but i really can't, since we're two guys, and you never know who's going to have a bad reaction.
here's another thing: while things are going very well with T, he's very laid back and calm, and growing up in Tennessee he listened to lots of country music, and i'm ultimately not sure how much of a fan he is, though he said he'd love to see U2 since he thought it was something everyone should do before they die (and he's right). i think A is a bigger fan than T, and i somehow think it would be more fun with A since she's wild and crazy. i also go into a sort of trance at a U2 show -- i lose track of space and time and yell and scream and sing and cry and act like i've taken crazy pills. which is great. but i don't want to freak out someone at the beginning of a relationship.
anyway ... what would you do?
i'd gotten tix through U2.com for the 2nd show and decided to take another one of my friends, we'll call him G, because he's a huge fan, we've been friends for almost 10 years, etc. he also stuck with me when U2 went through their Pop phase and were the object of criticism and i did my best to defend them against the naysayers. i'm a big believer in Karma -- he earned that ticket.
i was deciding between giving the ticket to G, or to A, who is one of my new best friends since moving to DC. she and i have a fairly emotionally intimate relationship, and i adore her, though she's prone to some jealousy and bearing a grudge and i often have to walk on eggshells around her. she's also a pretty big fan. i was hearbroken to have to choose between G and A, but i felt as if G "deserved" it more -- i had even considered holding an essay contest -- but i was going to try and get tix to the 1st show on eBay so i could take one each night, and i knew A would have the $$$ to pay for the ticket.
magically, i was able to get -- expensive, nosebleed -- tix for DC night 1, and i offered them to A. she was thrilled, but knew that i had just started dating someone new, we'll call him T. she adores T, and she said, point blank, that if i'd prefer to take T, then she'd understand.
and while she'd understand, i know she desperately wants to go, since she screamed and started jumping up and down when i offered her the ticket. i think she's just being really nice, which is sweet, but ... i dunno ...
i know, i know, you're thinking, "but, Irvine, with a significant other, you can make out during WOWY or whatever." but i really can't, since we're two guys, and you never know who's going to have a bad reaction.
here's another thing: while things are going very well with T, he's very laid back and calm, and growing up in Tennessee he listened to lots of country music, and i'm ultimately not sure how much of a fan he is, though he said he'd love to see U2 since he thought it was something everyone should do before they die (and he's right). i think A is a bigger fan than T, and i somehow think it would be more fun with A since she's wild and crazy. i also go into a sort of trance at a U2 show -- i lose track of space and time and yell and scream and sing and cry and act like i've taken crazy pills. which is great. but i don't want to freak out someone at the beginning of a relationship.
anyway ... what would you do?