well, today my best friend was sposed to be coming over, i asked her several times if she was SURE she was coming, and asked her again the night before to which she said yes. she was sposed to be geting the bus to my house after a driving lesson so i was waiting for the bus. she wasnt on it
ok i think, maybe she missed it and got the next one...(from this time until she actually answers it im ringing her phone BTW)
so the next bus comes, she isnt on that either.
about an hour passes, and eventually i get though to her. (i got though twice before, but seemed to get cut off after saying hello) i ask where she is, she says home, theres no point going to mine now. (even though shes the one who wanted to go) and i say i thought she was having a driving lesson and that there are plenty more busses to mine. but apparantly theres no point. so i say why didnt you ring, she says theres something wrong with her phone. (strange, how on this particular day theres something wrong with it when it was fine every other time shes had it. ) so why cant she use her home phone? oh but wait, shes got to go.
she never even attempted at letting me know she wasnt coming.
it just really pisses me off, i waited nearly an hour and a half for her, and shes had plenty of time to let me know.
its not even the fact she couldnt come, its the fact she thinks its ok to just leave me in the dark.
i bet she doesnt even realise shes done anything wrong either. she'll either give a forced apology or go in a mood and not talk to me until i have to apologise for something i didnt do wrong.
if i can never make it i always call her or let her know. its not so much to ask is it?
may seem pety, but its not the only thing she does. just little things, like borrowing stuff and never giving it back.
oh, and another non-friend example would be in a charity shop a few weeks ago, but unless you want to hear it i wont bother typing it out.