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Kiki

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I ended my nearly 2 year relationship because of my feelings for someone else. Now that someone else and I are together and things are going really really well for us. yet I still feel like a cold hearted bitch to an extent, because I know I hurt the other person.
 
don't feel bad :hug: you cant help it that you liked another person
 
as long as you didn't tell him a lot of BS when you broke up but told him the truth instead then I don't see anything wrong with this

it stings like hell to be lied to though
 
That happened to me after two years, except I was lied to. Now they're married and I realize that I was lucky for getting out of that one after all...
 
You were very sincere, not only with your ex but with yourself too... I Know that's hard ( because I had to reject a guy for the same reason ) but it is better to be honest and be consecuent with your feelings.

good luck!
 
*hugs*

I know how you feel, sort of. I just ended a very intense relationship and broke the other person's heart because the circumstances surrounding the relationship were really hurting me and taking it's toll and ... *sigh* yeah. I feel more grounded, now, more like I can do the things for myself medically that I need to and even that makes me feel guilty.

At least you were honest, a lot of people have no idea how gut-wrenching it is to have to end a relationship when the other person wants you to stay. You're not a bitch, you just did what you had to. Sometimes doing the right thing can put you through Hell.

*hugs*
 
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