Liesje
Blue Crack Addict
...myself. Lately I feel like I've managed to please everyone else in my life, but inside I hate myself and hate where I am. If I mention anything to my parents about how I'm really feeling, they gloss it over or say I'm just a complainer. For example, I've got this huge issue right now with paying for school. Tuition is over $20,000. I'm only 19 years old and am already close to $30,000 in debt (not including whatever interest has accumulated). I apply every summer for student loans and I feel so terrible b/c I always get turned down. I just don't understand it. Isn't the point of getting the loan b/c you CANT pay?!?! I guess my dad (the co-signer) doesn't make enough, or pays too big of house payments each month and everytime I get rejected. By the time I work up enough courage to tell my parents we were rejected again, they say "oh, it'll work out. You'll get scholarships and we'll find another loan." When this happened last summer, I let them find a different loan and they didn't know this, but I am required to make monthly interest payments. So now not only can I not afford tuition, I'm stuck paying for the loan that was supposed to help in the first place. Everything is stuck in a viscious cycle. I almost wish I could just take a year off and pull myself back together, but if I quit school, I loose my job. I can't get another job b/c I have such a great job and since I don't have a car, the only places in walking distance are low paying jobs like at the mall or restaurants. Everyone in my family thinks I'm so great b/c I've got this good job, I live on my own completely independent of my family, I have a nice boyfriend, I do OK in school, but I feel like a total looser. I used to always wake up in the morning and feel neutral, like certain events during the day would make or break the day. Now I wake up and feel hopeless and spend my entire day trying to either entertain myself and ignore those feelings or find something, anything to do that makes me feel better. Most days this does not happen b/c with working over 8 hrs a day, I just sit there in the office and space out. I just got back from a long vacation (my boss had encouraged me to take a vacation) where I thought I could finally sort things out, but instead I sat on the dock for hours each day unable to come up with any solutions and only feeling more and more hopeless. I have no direction; I feel either like a zombie or like I'm running around like a headless chicken. Everyone else has something tangible they're working towards and my biggest goal is to eventually be as far away as possible from where I'm at right now.
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