Acrobat Angel
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I found out a couple of days ago that the parents of one of my close friends have separated suddenly. I won't go into all the details as it is not my place to do so, but it seems the mother has walked out on her 3 daughters (aged 13, 18 and 21) and husband of nearly 25 years for a high school sweetheart she recently saw at a reunion function.
I have particular concerns for my friend who is a very emotional person and has gone off the rails in the past, but we always intervened before too much harm was done. We have always been lucky that when she had her issues we saw her daily at school, but since leaving school we rarely get to see each other and i worry that this safety-network not being there on a daily basis will do her harm.
Some of our friends who saw her a few days ago took her out clubbing to try to cheer her up (i was shocked and disgusted to learn they let her drink excessively). I've had friends in the past who have had parents separate, but the sudden nature and emotional instability of my friend in this case worries me much more.
I would really appreciate any advice for helping my friend and how to approach her on the topic without causing her distress.
Thanks for reading,
AA
I have particular concerns for my friend who is a very emotional person and has gone off the rails in the past, but we always intervened before too much harm was done. We have always been lucky that when she had her issues we saw her daily at school, but since leaving school we rarely get to see each other and i worry that this safety-network not being there on a daily basis will do her harm.
Some of our friends who saw her a few days ago took her out clubbing to try to cheer her up (i was shocked and disgusted to learn they let her drink excessively). I've had friends in the past who have had parents separate, but the sudden nature and emotional instability of my friend in this case worries me much more.
I would really appreciate any advice for helping my friend and how to approach her on the topic without causing her distress.
Thanks for reading,
AA