~LadyLemon~
I Serve Larry's Stick
This seems like a stupid question...but I can explain myself.
A friend of mine who lives in St. Louis had been wanting to set me up with a friend of her husband for a while. I finally met him last fall, and I just kind of fell over myself for him, so to speak. This came as a complete shock to me, because I usually don't fall so hard for people--it generally takes me a while to get to know them, etc. But yeah, it was like meeting the person I've always wanted to meet and never thought it would actually happen. And my attraction to him is very, very intense.
Anyway, I've spent time with him since then and since we met, we email each other on an almost daily basis. The last time we spent time together was over my spring break, and well, things happened, and naturally I liked him more after that. But we've decided that right now it's best to just be friends, because his new job keeps him at the office all the time, and I'm graduating and I don't know what the hell I'm doing.
Meanwhile, I've had a "flirtation" thing going on with a friend here for a while, but things have been kept low with him, because of the other guy. But now, since the other one is out of the picture romantically, I've started seeing my friend. I really like him, we have a lot of similiar interests (both total music geeks), and he's just a lot of fun to be with. What's my problem then? I just don't feel the same attraction as I do with the other guy. I don't know if this is something I can get over by spending more time with him...and obviously I realize that not everyone is going to knock your socks off. I'm just afraid that now I'm going to measure everyone to this other guy who totally blew me away.
But since things are progessing more with my friend, I don't know what to do. Is this something that I can just get over? It's not like he's unattractive, I just don't feel the same physical spark as I do with the other guy. Should I just keep seeing him and see what happens?? Maybe if I spend more time with him I can get over that. I know that it's stupid to make such a big deal out of this....this is almost making me feel shallow.
Hmm.
A friend of mine who lives in St. Louis had been wanting to set me up with a friend of her husband for a while. I finally met him last fall, and I just kind of fell over myself for him, so to speak. This came as a complete shock to me, because I usually don't fall so hard for people--it generally takes me a while to get to know them, etc. But yeah, it was like meeting the person I've always wanted to meet and never thought it would actually happen. And my attraction to him is very, very intense.
Anyway, I've spent time with him since then and since we met, we email each other on an almost daily basis. The last time we spent time together was over my spring break, and well, things happened, and naturally I liked him more after that. But we've decided that right now it's best to just be friends, because his new job keeps him at the office all the time, and I'm graduating and I don't know what the hell I'm doing.
Meanwhile, I've had a "flirtation" thing going on with a friend here for a while, but things have been kept low with him, because of the other guy. But now, since the other one is out of the picture romantically, I've started seeing my friend. I really like him, we have a lot of similiar interests (both total music geeks), and he's just a lot of fun to be with. What's my problem then? I just don't feel the same attraction as I do with the other guy. I don't know if this is something I can get over by spending more time with him...and obviously I realize that not everyone is going to knock your socks off. I'm just afraid that now I'm going to measure everyone to this other guy who totally blew me away.
But since things are progessing more with my friend, I don't know what to do. Is this something that I can just get over? It's not like he's unattractive, I just don't feel the same physical spark as I do with the other guy. Should I just keep seeing him and see what happens?? Maybe if I spend more time with him I can get over that. I know that it's stupid to make such a big deal out of this....this is almost making me feel shallow.
Hmm.