Ava Adore
The Fly
Well, without getting into too much detail... I am really confused. About a year and a half ago I made this decision to go away for a year once I completed my program at the University. I was really excited about the thought of living in Europe for a year, working in my profession. Now that school has ended I am starting to have some doubts.
I hate that I am doubting my decision but I think I am truly scared. I am 27 and have made a nice life for myself here so far, but I haven't really found a 'career' until now. I am excited about pursuing this career and really don't want to put my life off any longer. Now... I don't think per se that going to Europe for a year is necessarily putting my life on hold but it will be a step back. It's not a 'given' that I will find work in my profession while over there. So I think this is my dilemma. I don't want to go over there and end up in some crap job just to make ends meet, because that's all I could get, but at the same time, it could work out and I don't want to miss out on that chance. Up until these last few weeks I was so certain that this is what I wanted to do, but now I am not so sure.
It may also have something to do with the fact that I haven't been able to talk to my dad about it yet. I don't feel comfortable bringing up the subject because I know he'll think it's not a great idea and I'll get the 'when are you going to get on with your life, you can't play around forever' speech. A part of me disagrees with that, but a part of me feels he is right.
Maybe I am too old to just up and leave. I know no matter what I choose, I'll leave my town this fall because I need a change but maybe I should stay in my own country. Go back east, give Toronto a whirl... or pop over to Vancouver. Bright lights big city....
This is so hard.... I don't want to give up the dream, but I don't know if I can do this. Am I just scared? Surely it's more than just fear of the unknown. I am usually the kind of person that chooses to do something and follows through. It's so out of character for me to be having 'second thoughts'.
Any advice will be completely appreciated.
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...there's so much doubt in every heart,
for all our faults we carry on
...
I hate that I am doubting my decision but I think I am truly scared. I am 27 and have made a nice life for myself here so far, but I haven't really found a 'career' until now. I am excited about pursuing this career and really don't want to put my life off any longer. Now... I don't think per se that going to Europe for a year is necessarily putting my life on hold but it will be a step back. It's not a 'given' that I will find work in my profession while over there. So I think this is my dilemma. I don't want to go over there and end up in some crap job just to make ends meet, because that's all I could get, but at the same time, it could work out and I don't want to miss out on that chance. Up until these last few weeks I was so certain that this is what I wanted to do, but now I am not so sure.
It may also have something to do with the fact that I haven't been able to talk to my dad about it yet. I don't feel comfortable bringing up the subject because I know he'll think it's not a great idea and I'll get the 'when are you going to get on with your life, you can't play around forever' speech. A part of me disagrees with that, but a part of me feels he is right.
Maybe I am too old to just up and leave. I know no matter what I choose, I'll leave my town this fall because I need a change but maybe I should stay in my own country. Go back east, give Toronto a whirl... or pop over to Vancouver. Bright lights big city....
This is so hard.... I don't want to give up the dream, but I don't know if I can do this. Am I just scared? Surely it's more than just fear of the unknown. I am usually the kind of person that chooses to do something and follows through. It's so out of character for me to be having 'second thoughts'.
Any advice will be completely appreciated.
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...there's so much doubt in every heart,
for all our faults we carry on
...