Got Philk?
Rock n' Roll Doggie ALL ACCESS
My best friend and roommate is dating my X-girlfriend whom I dated for 3 years before breaking up last year. The break up was not a great one and some hard feelings were taken on both sides. Needless to say, seeing her and hearing her name and her voice (not to mention getting kicked out of our room so they can sleep in the same bed) is not something I was hoping for at all.
So basically this relationship bothers me b/c it is her, but even more because my best friend chose her over me, things have changed b/c of their relationship between him and I, and though we talked about how uncomfortable this would make things between us, he never cared and continued to seemingly ignore my pleas to keep her away from me and my girlfriend of now. Not to mention my girlfriend and her have a little tension b/c of the fact that they lived on the same dorm floor as I dated them at different times during the year... It's just really an awkward situation.
Anyway, I've had a lot of different viewpoints come at me. Some would say, "Why should it matter to you?" and others, "Gosh, who would do such a thing?" I'm interested in your thoughts on the situation? Do I have a right to be upset with my best friend turned friend? Or should I get over it... Feel free to ask questions as I am feeling quite a.d.d. tonight.
Key Point: May it be known I am dating the most wonderful woman in the world, LivLuvandBoolegMusic or Lies, and could not ask for more in a girlfriend.
So basically this relationship bothers me b/c it is her, but even more because my best friend chose her over me, things have changed b/c of their relationship between him and I, and though we talked about how uncomfortable this would make things between us, he never cared and continued to seemingly ignore my pleas to keep her away from me and my girlfriend of now. Not to mention my girlfriend and her have a little tension b/c of the fact that they lived on the same dorm floor as I dated them at different times during the year... It's just really an awkward situation.
Anyway, I've had a lot of different viewpoints come at me. Some would say, "Why should it matter to you?" and others, "Gosh, who would do such a thing?" I'm interested in your thoughts on the situation? Do I have a right to be upset with my best friend turned friend? Or should I get over it... Feel free to ask questions as I am feeling quite a.d.d. tonight.
Key Point: May it be known I am dating the most wonderful woman in the world, LivLuvandBoolegMusic or Lies, and could not ask for more in a girlfriend.