Doozer61
Blue Crack Addict
I have a very close friend who suffers from this. She sees a therapist and psychiatrist and a medical doctor. The meds she is on do not seem to be working and at times she seems so fragile. I try to support her the best I can however sometimes I just want to shake her and say get over it and step up.
She panics when it is too noisy. One time we asked her to watch Sophia for the weekend while we were away and she bailed at the last minute saying she just couldn't do it. Last week, we were at lunch and all in the same car, she got a headache and had to leave immediately, which meant we had to leave as well.
Today at church, she snapped because I whispered something to another friend and walked out. She was supposed to come for dinner tonight and cancelled because of that.
I feel bad and I don't know what it's like to walk in her shoes but sometimes I just want to throw in the towel on this friendship. It is hard to go up and down with her, not knowing who will show up.
Does anyone have some insight?
She panics when it is too noisy. One time we asked her to watch Sophia for the weekend while we were away and she bailed at the last minute saying she just couldn't do it. Last week, we were at lunch and all in the same car, she got a headache and had to leave immediately, which meant we had to leave as well.
Today at church, she snapped because I whispered something to another friend and walked out. She was supposed to come for dinner tonight and cancelled because of that.
I feel bad and I don't know what it's like to walk in her shoes but sometimes I just want to throw in the towel on this friendship. It is hard to go up and down with her, not knowing who will show up.
Does anyone have some insight?