Ralphie
The Fly
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- Jan 13, 2006
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Help, help! I'm having a strange relationship issue, which sounds like nothing but is really getting to me. I seem to be dating a chronic cuddler!
Let me explain...it's not that I'm some cold ice queen that doesn't allow for any affection. I do however, like my personal space. I'm not necessarily comfortable with being touched all of the time. And with this guys it's like...if I'm hanging out with my friends, at Starbucks, just want to veg out and watch the Simpsons...we always have to be holding hands or snuggled up, whether I want to or not. And I feel like if this was really an effort to be sweet to me, then he would also respect it when I pull away or signal that I want some space...instead he usually ignores this.
Am I being weird or aloof, do you think? Again, it's not that I don't like him and I'm brushing him off. I just prefer more personal space and I'm not really into PDAs. How do you tell a guy 'stop snuggling with me all the time, for crying out loud!' without it sounding like a rejection? Please help, fellow U2 fans! (Hmmm, surely there's a song about this somewhere...)
Let me explain...it's not that I'm some cold ice queen that doesn't allow for any affection. I do however, like my personal space. I'm not necessarily comfortable with being touched all of the time. And with this guys it's like...if I'm hanging out with my friends, at Starbucks, just want to veg out and watch the Simpsons...we always have to be holding hands or snuggled up, whether I want to or not. And I feel like if this was really an effort to be sweet to me, then he would also respect it when I pull away or signal that I want some space...instead he usually ignores this.
Am I being weird or aloof, do you think? Again, it's not that I don't like him and I'm brushing him off. I just prefer more personal space and I'm not really into PDAs. How do you tell a guy 'stop snuggling with me all the time, for crying out loud!' without it sounding like a rejection? Please help, fellow U2 fans! (Hmmm, surely there's a song about this somewhere...)
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