Liesje
Blue Crack Addict
One of my ex-professors and I are more like friends than teacher-student. We e-mailed a bit during the fall semester to keep in touch. Previously, the last I heard from her was around Christmas because her dad died very unexpectedly on Dec. 23. She didn't respond for a while and I recently found out it was because her college address doesn't work because she's not a prof anymore. She quit teaching in Feb. pretty much the second she learned her baby daughter has leukemia. She basically called the college and said she wasn't coming back. A friend of mine put us back in touch and now I feel really quilty because she's asking me all these questions about my life and the great and exciting things that are happening to me, when I know her dad died, now her baby is sick, and even both her dogs had to have surgery. I don't know what to write back because I don't want to ignore the issue with her daughter, but I don't know how to talk about it. I don't want to upset her. I don't have kids so I don't know what it's like to bring a baby to the hospital every few weeks, knowing they're going to inject her with a poison that will make a seemingly healthy child violently ill. I also feel quilty answering her questions because my life sounds great and hers is total shit.
So yeah, I guess pray for her if you're the praying type. Or if you've been in this situation before, please help me out with what to say back so that I can communicate that I care, but not say something stupid that will make her sad. Sometimes I hate e-mail b/c it's impossible to tell if she's telling me about this because she wants to talk about it, or because she just needs to make sure I know about it.
So yeah, I guess pray for her if you're the praying type. Or if you've been in this situation before, please help me out with what to say back so that I can communicate that I care, but not say something stupid that will make her sad. Sometimes I hate e-mail b/c it's impossible to tell if she's telling me about this because she wants to talk about it, or because she just needs to make sure I know about it.