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I found myself in an awkward situation today, and just thought I'd share it to get some clarity.
My cousin and I were talking about a mutual friend of ours, and how this person is a great guy, open-minded, and for me at least, inspirational. He's also a former boss of mine and respected in the community. He's kind of like our local Bono.
Anyway, as we got into the discussion, my cousin tells me how this person recently attempted suicide. It was shocking news to me, and it also made me feel uncomfortable; not uncomfortable because of the issue, but because of how she found out--from her inlaws who work in the hospital where our friend was treated.
I just feel reporting it at random like this violates our friend's privacy. Am I being anal and self-righteous about this (which I can be, I'm told) or should I tell my cousin to zip it until this friend is comfortable with sharing the story himself?
My cousin and I were talking about a mutual friend of ours, and how this person is a great guy, open-minded, and for me at least, inspirational. He's also a former boss of mine and respected in the community. He's kind of like our local Bono.
Anyway, as we got into the discussion, my cousin tells me how this person recently attempted suicide. It was shocking news to me, and it also made me feel uncomfortable; not uncomfortable because of the issue, but because of how she found out--from her inlaws who work in the hospital where our friend was treated.
I just feel reporting it at random like this violates our friend's privacy. Am I being anal and self-righteous about this (which I can be, I'm told) or should I tell my cousin to zip it until this friend is comfortable with sharing the story himself?