The reason I harp on about the postal survey and the electorate-by-electorate tallies and the whole unnecessary divisiveness of it all is this: given where opinion polls have been in recent years (and none of this would even be an issue absent Howard's bastardry back in 2004), a government that simply did its job and legislated for the matter without fuss and the hoopla of a national campaign, would likely have been met with a response like:
60ish% - broadly supportive, relieved and/or happy
20 or 25% - not-thrilled-but-whaddayagonnado, or 'shrug'
10 or 20% abject opposition
Instead we get this needless fear and loathing, for much the same legislative outcome ultimately. Cause I bet some proportion of that 38% no vote were 'no, since you asked me', rather than 'I'm gonna fight the poofs to my dying breath'. Or even as petty as 'no, because I just had a shit day'. Or 'no, because you're bugging me with shit I don't want to think about'. As for the hard core; well, they aren't an election winning coalition, and they probably knew it already, but definitely do now.