I was browsing PsychologyToday.com, and I came across this:
Why are so many girls lesbian or bisexual? | Psychology Today
I think the increasing number of women coming out at lesbian or bisexual may have to do with guys. Yes, it may be possible that these women are born like that, but why more women are alternative compared to men?
I have to admit I once flirted with the idea of bisexuality back in college. That was because so many guys at that age are such douches. They don't care about girls, they just want to get laid. That behavior even continues after college. A lot of guys are losers, treating women as property and sex objects. It did and still does turn me off from guys and you wonder what else is out there.
When a woman says she's fed up with men, she starts batting for the other team. When a guy says he's had it with women, he starts abusing them and very rarely becomes attracted to men.
So, is it really guys' fault that so many women are coming out as gay or bi? Or are male and female brains really so different from each other?
I'm hoping we could have a decent discussion on gender and sexuality.
Psychologist John Buss estimates that for most of human history, perhaps 2% of women have been lesbian or bisexual (see note 1, below). Not any more. Recent surveys of teenage girls and young women find that roughly 15% of young females today self-identify as lesbian or bisexual, compared with about 5% of young males who identify as gay or bisexual
Is there any connection between these two trends - between the rise in the number of young women who self-identify as lesbian or bisexual, and the increasing normalization and acceptance of pornography in the lives of young men? Maybe there is. A young woman told me how her boyfriend several years ago suggested that she shave her pubic hair, so that she might more closely resemble the porn stars who were this young man's most consistent source of sexual arousal. She now identifies herself as bisexual. "It was just such a welcome change, to snuggle under a blanket on the couch with my girlfriend, watch a movie, and talk about God and death and growing old, to be intimate emotionally and spiritually as well as physically. I don't know a guy who could even comprehend the conversations we have."
I wish Constance McMillen and her girlfriend all the best. But I have to wonder: Are there so many girl-girl couples out there because that's truly who they are - or because the guys are such losers?
Why are so many girls lesbian or bisexual? | Psychology Today
I think the increasing number of women coming out at lesbian or bisexual may have to do with guys. Yes, it may be possible that these women are born like that, but why more women are alternative compared to men?
I have to admit I once flirted with the idea of bisexuality back in college. That was because so many guys at that age are such douches. They don't care about girls, they just want to get laid. That behavior even continues after college. A lot of guys are losers, treating women as property and sex objects. It did and still does turn me off from guys and you wonder what else is out there.
When a woman says she's fed up with men, she starts batting for the other team. When a guy says he's had it with women, he starts abusing them and very rarely becomes attracted to men.
So, is it really guys' fault that so many women are coming out as gay or bi? Or are male and female brains really so different from each other?
I'm hoping we could have a decent discussion on gender and sexuality.