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Okay, here's my two cents:
Breastfeeding is perfectly natural and the healthiest and best way to feed a baby. I was breastfed. If I ever had kids, I would breastfeed. I think more women should get over the 'omg a baby at my boob is grooooss' idea and breastfeed.
And when a mother is in public and her baby wants to nurse, she should nurse her baby. She shouldn't be forced to hide or seclude herself in a separate room, or just stay home, or pump beforehand so she can bottle-feed the baby instead.
Yes, women can (and many do) throw a baby blanket over their shoulder to cover the 'process'. The blanket doesn't actually make contact with the baby's face, so it's not cruel in that way, it just forms a tent around the baby and the mother's chest/arms. I think this is a very good, easy solution. But if for whatever reason, this is unfeasible/uncomfortable for the mother and the baby, there are loads of solutions that allow a woman to nurse her baby unencumbered, without exposing anything at all.
Look at these two images from a site that sells specially made clothes for nursing mothers:
You can hardly tell she's nursing at all. At a glance, it just looks like she's holding the baby. Nothing is exposed. A nursing baby takes the entire nipple and areola into its mouth. The nursing tops come with a covered slit, allowing the baby access. The slit can then be closed around the rest of the breast, covering everything that the baby's mouth isn't covering.
I can certainly see where people might be uncomfortable by a nursing mother having her whole boob hanging out, but honestly... it may be the natural way to nurse a baby, but in this society, any woman that does that in public probably wants the attention it will bring her. (And yes, that's my controversial statement for this post, here, have two more cents just for that)
There's no reason why a breastfeeding mother shouldn't buy a couple of nursing tops for use when she's out in public. They're no more expensive than other nice clothes, and they look perfectly stylish.
as a woman who has successfully breastfed 2 children and will feed the next one when she is born in a couple of months, i have found the majority of responses to this topic repulsive and offensive beyond reproach.
Not breastfeeding several generations of children might be a cause in the future downfall of western civilization.
That is not hyperbole.
Not breastfeeding several generations of children might be a cause in the future downfall of western civilization.
That is not hyperbole.
Not breastfeeding several generations of children might be a cause in the future downfall of western civilization.
That is not hyperbole.
Not breastfeeding several generations of children might be a cause in the future downfall of western civilization.
That is not hyperbole.
i pose probably the simplest question you're going to get on this forum and you still dance around it?Why not take a few minutes to read and explore the link I posted and then ask a question.
Reading is fun
i pose probably the simplest question you're going to get on this forum and you still dance around it?
do you have a mortal fear of replying to anything ended with a question mark?
Not breastfeeding several generations of children might be a cause in the future downfall of western civilization.
That is not hyperbole.
On another forum I belong to someone has a sig for how long she's been breastfeeding. TMI much? What's next, a count down to someone's next BM?
I'm guessing that this topic is clouded because most of us do not live on a farm anymore.
Breasts are sex objects, not food for the young.
everyone knows girls pee out their bum........ (I actually used to think this when i was about 5)
But ... you don't read. Ever. You skim and then ask vague questions that require you to type no more than two sentences.
You've never given a legitimate response to anything that's been posted in your direction. It's frustrating.