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Old 09-02-2017, 06:14 PM   #16
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I remember you, didn't realize it was that long ago either. Your name came up in the politics thread the other day and I was like oh ya I remember that guy.

In 2006 I graduated from college, finally got my driver's license, and got my emt card so I could find a job til I figured out what I want to be when I grow up. I still haven't figured that out, but I went to paramedic school and I've been doing that going on almost 8 years now. I moved across country to Colorado, where I live with my boyfriend and two cats. There's another huge life change that I mentioned in another thread that I don't necessarily feel like getting into right here, but I'd say my life changed a bunch over the last 10 years--definitely for the better.
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Let's see... I graduated, got a job, got a cat, met this amazing woman, fell in love, got an even bigger beard, bought a house, got a better job, became a dad of an amazing little boy.

I guess it's been an eventful decade
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Old 09-02-2017, 06:44 PM   #17
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I was in high school ten years ago. I was miserable and overweight and frequently had bouts of bad OCD with religion and sexuality. I eventually mellowed out at the end of high school which lead to a lot of good stuff...

Got a girlfriend, who I've been with for a long long time.

Got a new little brother. I've grown really close to my family, even though I don't live in the same state as them anymore.

Stopped some of my old hobbies (tennis), and focussed on new hobbies (following a stupid band called U2)

Graduated high school, graduated college, got a job as an engineer. I studied computer science because I thought it would lead to better job security (it has), but my passions have always been literature and storytelling. I regret not going that path in college, but the grass is always greener.

I hate being an engineer; I want to be a TV writer.

Oh, and I really want a pet bird.
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Old 09-02-2017, 08:09 PM   #19
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Wow. This thread is a bit mind blowing. I've lurked on here since well before 2006 but barley ever post.
Why?
Mostly cause I find it so intimidating. All these regulars who I presume are so cool, confident, faultless, together, know each other so well etc.
Then these wee testimonials show how these terrifying avatars are really real people going through the same shit as me, the struggles and pain. And Galeongirl is on the autism spectrum! Shit! Me too! Mind blown.
So yeah. Even for lurkers like me who you all know nothing about and never see my name pop up, I'm still here, and you lot and this place has been and still is really important for me.
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Glad to hear you're doing okay! You really went through quite a rough patch over the years.


Like Ax and Cobbler, I also got here as a teenager. I never fit in, got bullied, this place quickly became my home. In the past ten years, so much has happened. I finally figured out what was wrong with me, why I was so different (autism), why I could never focus and had so much trouble with subjects I didn't care about (ADD). I learned so much about myself and how to deal with things, that with a delay I finished my bachelor's degree in Chemistry and a master's in Medicinal Chemistry. I now work as a software developer for a big company. I also just bought a house this summer and am now finally living on my own with 2 kittens. Before this I still lived at home cause I could not afford a house of my own. I never wanted a student house and regular rentals suck here to get. But now I have a proper job and some savings and I managed to get my own flat. Life's pretty damn good. Interference was with me for the worst moments of my life, but also the best now. It's really, really strange that all these strangers on the internet helped me through so much stuff. And now I've even gone and met you guys and some are even close friends now (and one's a coworker, lol). All that's missing for now is the relationship void, been there, tried that, stuff's hard. But eventually that'll be okay too. Meanwhile I'm pretty damn okay alone with my kitties. Perhaps the crazy cat lady life ain't so bad!
We had a long PM chain going for a while, haha. Reckon that helped build my confidence
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Wow. This thread is a bit mind blowing. I've lurked on here since well before 2006 but barley ever post.
Why?
Mostly cause I find it so intimidating. All these regulars who I presume are so cool, confident, faultless, together, know each other so well etc.
Then these wee testimonials show how these terrifying avatars are really real people going through the same shit as me, the struggles and pain. And Galeongirl is on the autism spectrum! Shit! Me too! Mind blown.
So yeah. Even for lurkers like me who you all know nothing about and never see my name pop up, I'm still here, and you lot and this place has been and still is really important for me.
Behind every anonymous face on the internet rests a story. Everyone has their struggles, everyone had their issues, but they all brought us to where we are now. And most people pretend to be cool on the internet anyway. Though not me, I really am cool in real life.

Why not post more? Don't let anyone intimidate you, we might come across as a bit clique-y sometimes but most people are pretty cool here. Just don't barge in on the community like topics, just say hi or something like you just did with this post. Start posting here and there, EYKIW is a great place to start, and people will easily accept you into the community.

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We had a long PM chain going for a while, haha. Reckon that helped build my confidence
Yeah, those were the days. Then you grew up and got a life and all and left me behind.

Nah I guess we both got too busy with life. Would be fun to catch up some day. I swear I'll be coming to Melbourne in a few years for a holiday!
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Old 09-03-2017, 09:49 AM   #22
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Graduated high school, graduated college, got a job as an engineer. I studied computer science because I thought it would lead to better job security (it has), but my passions have always been literature and storytelling. I regret not going that path in college, but the grass is always greener.
It's funny, I often wonder what would've come of me if I had chosen a more "employable" path. I've been very lucky so far pursuing History. The job market is fucking awful, really. I began university expecting to go into politics, and certainly I'd enjoy greater job security if I had followed that path into, say, the public service. I also toyed with town planning.

Truth be told, though, my childhood ambitions were to drive trains and write. I can't see well enough, so being a train driver was never on the table. If I weren't legally blind, I'd probably be driving a coalie somewhere in New Zealand right now, the draft of a novel at my side.

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Wow. This thread is a bit mind blowing. I've lurked on here since well before 2006 but barley ever post.
Why?
Mostly cause I find it so intimidating. All these regulars who I presume are so cool, confident, faultless, together, know each other so well etc.
Then these wee testimonials show how these terrifying avatars are really real people going through the same shit as me, the struggles and pain. And Galeongirl is on the autism spectrum! Shit! Me too! Mind blown.
So yeah. Even for lurkers like me who you all know nothing about and never see my name pop up, I'm still here, and you lot and this place has been and still is really important for me.
This really is the only forum I post on where I'm a regular. There are a couple of others where I post now and then, but I've never been able to fit into the community or become a regular, so I hear you. I got my start on EYKIW back when it was more active, then the setlist parties for the Vertigo Tour. I actually thought I was slowly checking out of Interference in 2007, and then the Superthread happened in 2008. I'm not sure I posted more than a couple of times in places like B&C until then.

I remember when one of my colleagues a few years ago made a comment to me about "you're a cool guy, you know everybody and you hang out with bands". I thought she was taking the piss because all I could hear in my head was the laughter of the people who knew me in high school. It took me a while to realise these people I worked with didn't know me in high school and didn't have any preconceived ideas about me being some awkward loner who was easy to wind up.

I've forgotten which part of New Zealand you're in - is it Dunedin? But when I'm next in the right neck of the woods, come join me for a beer if you want. It's always better to have company, much as I like nursing a pint while reading a book.
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Old 09-03-2017, 10:05 AM   #23
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Well...in the past 10 years I graduated from high school and graduated from college 3 months ago. Now I'm just job searching, but anywhere away from home - there's no work here in my field of interest. I have a Bachelor's in TV Production, and surprisingly I've found about 10-15 vacant, full-time positions across the U.S.. The best-case scenario would be to have moved out and start working somewhere by the end of the year, but it's looking a bit grim. Other than that, life is pretty good.
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Well...in the past 10 years I graduated from high school and graduated from college 3 months ago. Now I'm just job searching, but anywhere away from home - there's no work here in my field of interest. I have a Bachelor's in TV Production, and surprisingly I've found about 10-15 vacant, full-time positions across the U.S.. The best-case scenario would be to have moved out and start working somewhere by the end of the year, but it's looking a bit grim. Other than that, life is pretty good.


We're in the same boat man. I just graduated college in June. I'm going to be working in Portland living with my parents for a year or two and then head onto grad school to get a masters in public policy. 10 years ago I had just moved to Portland from Charlottesville, VA with my family and was starting middle school. Crazy how much has changed in the past 10 years. I joined Interference back in 2011/2012 and mainly lurked back then but occasionally I post now. This is a pretty cool community.
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In 2006 I was working an unfulfilling retail management job, living the typical mid-20s single life in a big city (not a ton of responsibility, but not a ton of direction either).

Three years later I'd meet my future wife, who would encourage me to find something I could be passionate about as a career. In 2010 we got engaged, I quit my job and we moved to Chicago so I could train to be a piano technician (I was a piano major in college and have always loved the piano). We got married in 2011, I completed my training (including an amazing, life-altering summer internship with the Boston Symphony Orchestra), we moved to Omaha in 2013 (my wife grew up in Nebraska and still has lots of family here), and I've been working as an independent piano tech for just about 5 years now. Life is pretty damn good, all in all.
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It's funny, I often wonder what would've come of me if I had chosen a more "employable" path. I've been very lucky so far pursuing History. The job market is fucking awful, really. I began university expecting to go into politics, and certainly I'd enjoy greater job security if I had followed that path into, say, the public service. I also toyed with town planning.

Truth be told, though, my childhood ambitions were to drive trains and write. I can't see well enough, so being a train driver was never on the table. If I weren't legally blind, I'd probably be driving a coalie somewhere in New Zealand right now, the draft of a novel at my side
Ahhh, my childhood dreams were also to drive trains. I'd still love to one day

I'm pretty jealous honestly. I've considered getting a PhD in English, but the US job market for academics is atrocious as well. I'm just trying to retire early if my more ambitious creative tasks don't pan out.



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Three years later I'd meet my future wife, who would encourage me to find something I could be passionate about as a career. In 2010 we got engaged, I quit my job and we moved to Chicago so I could train to be a piano technician (I was a piano major in college and have always loved the piano). We got married in 2011, I completed my training (including an amazing, life-altering summer internship with the Boston Symphony Orchestra), we moved to Omaha in 2013 (my wife grew up in Nebraska and still has lots of family here), and I've been working as an independent piano tech for just about 5 years now. Life is pretty damn good, all in all.
Dude, that's fucking awesome.
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I'm also kinda surprised at how young a lot of us are here. More < 30 year olds than I thought.
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It has been over a decade – how has your life really changed?

It's super interesting reading all of this! I appreciate everyone's testimonials, and I love hearing the positive role that Interference has played in many roles, as it has in mine.

Let's see... well, I was 14 ten years ago and now I'm 24, so that's a rather big shift in itself. At 14, I was kinda nerdy and awkward (like many here). I'm not sure that's entirely gone away (not that it necessarily should!), though I'm at least more comfortable now. I was also pretty emotionally intense at the age of 14, something that hasn't really faded at all.

I went through high school super involved in debate, and loved that, along with general STEM studies. I spent five years at UT-Austin after that and truly had an amazing time, getting to study engineering and lots of liberal arts as well. I discovered that I really love both, and I greatly enjoyed my studies in general, for their variety and the intensity of engineering. I wasn't very into partying and I didn't drink at all, but I found a nice niche of friends. And I had engaging and fun internships in New York, San Diego, and Dallas. There were some difficult moments... my family's financial situation basically collapsed during my time at UT, for instance, which was painful to watch. But I'm very positive about my time there.

I now work at a management consulting firm in Dallas. I mostly find the work pretty interesting, but I struggle with the hours sometimes, especially as of late (80 hours per week is very different than 60 hours per week). One weird facet of my life here is that I'm traveling for work more than I'm home. Usually nowadays, it's just down to Austin, but I spend 4 nights per week there and often go other places than home (Dallas) on weekends. I love this for now, but recognize that it comes at a cost, and that I won't love it forever.

There have been a lot of struggles. I lost a 21-year-old sibling to suicide this year. That's... incredibly painful. My parents and remaining sibling are really torn up in a lot of ways, and it's tough to be around them, though I try to support them. The suicide is really hard to work through, and the financial situation doesn't help.

I've varied a bit on religion over the years, in ways not terribly atypical for a progressive white Southern young adult. I was raised Christian but by reasonably progressive parents; we mostly went to Episcopal church. My mom turned a lot more conservative as I became an atheist at the end of high school (2010ish), which was a struggle. I'm back more towards Progressive Christianity (I don't at all think that homosexuality is sinful, and traditional Christian doctrine of hell strikes me as abhorrent and absurdly unlikely - some big rifts I have with a lot of Christian teaching in the US), with a rather substantial dash of agnosticism. I readily admit that I don't think there's any solid evidence that God actually exists, but I have some hope that He does, and I think it benefits me and the world around me for me to act on that hope. But I also admit that I could trend back towards atheism, though I hope I don't right now. Regardless, religion is a topic of very real interest to me.

I've had a couple of relationships, both of which ended painfully in the last year. The first was a six year relationship; the second was a six month relationship. The latter was really tied up constantly with my religious adventures, and the breakup there is still painful for me to work through.

But all in all, I'm very blessed, even as life is a continually interesting adventure.
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Old 09-03-2017, 06:52 PM   #29
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Thanks Galeongirl, sound advice and you're right, I need to post more! It can get a bit habitual to just sit back and watch, avoiding conflicts etc, but ultimately that's not really very fulfilling.
Though catching Axver's 150000 post count is unlikely!
Axver I totally understand your story! And yep I'm in Dunedin, and will absolutely buy you a beer. Perhaps when U2 will be play here next year (fingers crossed).
Thanks guys
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Meanwhile I'm pretty damn okay alone with my kitties. Perhaps the crazy cat lady life ain't so bad!
Believe it or not...I too, love cats. Our home has three permanent residents and we have fostered kittens until their adoption (a heartwarming and heartbreaking experience)

Glad to see you've accomplishment so much in your education! Awesome job!
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