Is Lust Sinful? (--> split)

[80sU2isBest]

Well ok, but what about Christian dating sites? Think about it, bored and lonely Christian women, they've been saving themselves up, which means they're gagging for it, they're out there on the dating sites and they're looking for a good Christian husband - and that could be you, 80s!

Think of it - voltupuous women with child bearin hip and blow job lips that have been saving themselves up for years and years and they're so horny right now you wouldn't believe it. Thousands of them out there, waiting for a dip of ye' old spear. What are you waiting, for, dive in!

I feel bad for women who waste their time on Christian dating sites. Poor ladies have no idea that they'll never find a guy with your class and charm.

 

[Irvine511]

But truth is, I know i won't be getting married, so it's not really a "wait" decision.

why?

but only answer if you feel comfortable. if it's personal, no worries.

 

[80sU2isBest]

why?

but only answer if you feel comfortable. if it's personal, no worries.

Well, for one thing, I'm 43 years old. But mainly because I just don't want to. It's just not a desire in my life anymore.

When I was in my 20s, I wanted to get married. When I was in my early 30s, I wanted to get married to a specific person. Now, I don't want marriage at all. I don't even date.

You know, when people hear me say "I won't get married", they think they're being helpful by saying "Oh don't worry; you'll find the right gal." They just don't get it. I don't want to be.

People have stopped saying that to me now, thank goodness, but they used to say it all the time when I was in my 20s and early 30s.

 

[deep]

you just haven't met the right gal, yet.

 

[80sU2isBest]

you just haven't met the right gal, yet.

Ha ha, that's another one they used to say to me.

 

[PhilsFan]

Isn't Finance Guy in Ireland? He's been posting at 3 or 4 in the morning. He's probably shitfaced.

Spoiler

God knows I am!

 

[mama cass]

Isn't Finance Guy in Ireland? He's been posting at 3 or 4 in the morning. He's probably shitfaced.

let's hope so!

(otherwise he's just an arse...)

 

[mama cass]

Well, for one thing, I'm 43 years old. But mainly because I just don't want to. It's just not a desire in my life anymore.

When I was in my 20s, I wanted to get married. When I was in my early 30s, I wanted to get married to a specific person. Now, I don't want marriage at all. I don't even date.

You know, when people hear me say "I won't get married", they think they're being helpful by saying "Oh don't worry; you'll find the right gal." They just don't get it. I don't want to be.

People have stopped saying that to me now, thank goodness, but they used to say it all the time when I was in my 20s and early 30s.

i don't know your situation 80's, but from my church experience in my very very distant past, i think churches/christian communities can put an awful lot of pressure on young people to get married and it's not helpful at all... i've seen young christians pressured into a marriage where they clearly weren't in love with each other, and with a lot of supposedly "well-meaning" interference from their church leaders, and it ended disastrously...

i think it's great that you've found happiness thru your own decision, respect to you

 

[80sU2isBest]

i think it's great that you've found happiness thru your own decision, respect to you

Thanks very much!

The only drawback to being single at my age that I can think of is the thought that when I'm elderly, I'll be lonely. But that thought isn't bad enough for me to go out and seek something now that in my heart of hearts I know I don't want. Besides, I have a very large family - many siblings and nieces and nephews, so I doubt the loneliness will be too bad.

 

[jonnytakeawalk]

I think it depends on the circumstances. Women that dress like prick-teasers and/or sluts will attract a lot of males to them, like bees to a honey-pot, but, are often not that great in the sack, in my experience.

I find the terms prick teaser and slut to be pretty offensive to be honest, as if after a certain point of flirting and attention the woman owes you sex.

 

[Irvine511]

The only drawback to being single at my age that I can think of is the thought that when I'm elderly, I'll be lonely.

same here, honestly.

hence, another reason i'd like to eventually legalize my relationship via marriage.

 

[80sU2isBest]

same here, honestly.

hence, another reason i'd like to eventually legalize my relationship via marriage.

Yeep, we all need people, even if I sometimes like to think of myself as a "lone wolf". I don't know where I'd be without my loved ones.

 

[80sU2isBest]

I find the terms prick teaser and slut to be pretty offensive to be honest, as if after a certain point of flirting and attention the woman owes you sex.

Heck yeah, it's offensive. It treats women like objects.

 

[MrsSpringsteen]

What the hell? Nevermind..

It really is good to stay off here on the weekends

 

[Jive Turkey]

So how many of you took up my invitation to fantasize about me?

 

[80sU2isBest]

So how many of you took up my invitation to fantasize about me?

Darn; I knew I forgot to do something important this weekend!

 

[ryancoke71]

So how many of you took up my invitation to fantasize about me?

Well, that killed the thread for a good 8 hours! Perhaps you need a different avi!

 

[mama cass]

hey you can't knock a John Cleese with a hanky on his head

 

[Jive Turkey]

That's Michael Palin with a hanky on his head

this is John Cleese with a hanky on his head

 

[mama cass]

oh god! i need my eyes testing ha

 

[BoMac]

 

[mama cass]

oh c'mon with that hanky and moustache it's an easy mistake to make hehe

btw, while we're on the subject, is it just me, but does the Bono/stingray moment make anyone else think of the Ministry of Silly Walks? i cannot shake it!!

 

[corianderstem]

It's not just you.

 

[Pearl]

If you read many of the online advice boards, it seems that a lot of women are fed up with their partner's porn watching and wonder if they should get a divorce. According to research by Patrick F. Fagan, senior fellow and director of the conservative Center for Research on Marriage and Religion, pornography is a "quiet family killer."
No only does watching porn contribute to infidelity, but a spouse's porn obsession was a factor in 56 percent of divorces, Fagan says.
Divorce attorneys tend to agree with Fagan's findings. At a 2003 meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, two-thirds of the 350 divorce lawyers noted that the Internet was playing an increasing role in marital splits, with excessive online porn watching contributing to more than half of the divorces. According to Richard Barry, president of the association, "Pornography had an almost nonexistent role in divorce just seven or eight years ago."

Vicki Larson: Does Porn Watching Lead to Divorce?

 

[MrsSpringsteen]

I think you can commit a form of infidelity with a computer without even looking at porn or being involved with other men or woman online. I wonder how many marriages these days are just two people plugged into a computer (or a smartphone) and unplugged from each other. Can lead to lack of communication, lack of intimacy (not just sexual), lack of companionship, activities together, etc.

I think obsession with anything can lead to a divorce-but yes, porn could be a major factor.

 

[Irvine511]

i think porn is largely what you make of it.

it's a problem when it's a problem.